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Why porsha so angry with Kandi tho,she got a mount on her when it come to Kandi.somebody hating on Kandi .
😂😂you see how FAST porsha got off the stage at peters roast😂😂 Peter ROASTED an BBQ her foolish ass up there when he said , he’d hit Cynthia again if she didn’t get there first 🤣😂😂🤣she look SO STUPID!😂🤣😂🤣
lol Lupeter is such a messy queen! I LIIIIIIVED for the slide comments Lupeter made. YAAAAS! Come through, boo!
When peter called out porsha at the roast , that was the LOUDEST and MOST VOLCAL I’ve heard porsha man be😂😂he burst out laughing at her🤣😂🤣but yet he QUIET as a mouse when things get real😂🤣…. he’s such a PUNK!!
Cynthia ready to give a TOAST😂Instead of s roast 🤣😂🤣… Cynthia couldn’t roast peter 🤣😂her roast SUCKED!!🤣😂. Then you hear the FLAMING diss Phaedra said after Cynthia was done😂🤣😂🤣
Nobody was really down with Kenya divorced party, I don’t really blame Phaedra for her attitude, I understand!😐 Cynthia wasn’t really feeling it and then Phaedra!! Kenya all to happy to celebrate people’s divorce cause the WITCH never been married, can’t seem to get married An LUV that people gonna join her in the @ single club ” MISERY LUV COMPANY 😐
I always knew why I would ALWAYS laugh when I would see the scenes with Kenya an Phaedra, ha ha and hee heeing together!! ALL that Phaedra said to Kenya tonight about her interfering in her marriage and flirting with appolo, was ONLY what Phaedra been harbouring in her heart all this time for Kenya! I KNEW they could NEVER be true friends 😂🤣😂and for Kenya to have thought that it was possible, shows how stupid Kenya was for thinking it😂🤣Phaedra will NEVER truly forgive Kenya for that, but I’m also glad how bravo showed those flashbacks to also show how DANGEROUSLY FAKE Phaedra can be😂🤣😂
The flashbacks also showed how dangerously foul Kenya was in disrespecting her marriage. I hated that Phaedra even gave Kenya the time of the day this season because it was not deserved with her level of disrespect which is why I agree Phaedra was being fake but I don’t think that Phaedra “forgiving” Kenya this season is the same as wanting to celebrate and joke about your divorce with the lady who never respected your marriage from jump. Nobody in their right mind would friends or not. Forgive but never forget.
True true ‘n
Her Q was a lil over the top but I don’t think she intended to cross the line. She’s asked daring Q’s to everyone. I think she’s since realised it’s inappropriate. Also she didn’t make Apollo pick her up & jump in the pool with her.
What flashbacks did Kenya disrespect the marriage?
They were friends in some of the flashbacks… let’s not reach.
Apollo carried Kenya and not vice versa….
Calm down with the blind accusations
Can you explain the dangerous disrespecting of Phaedra’s marriage that Kenya allegedly perpetrated?
I don’t think it’s stupid to think a person can grow and move forward especially after her own husband admitted he was lying 🤥
urghhhhhh Bless you for this.
This is why I can’t get along with women. what a strange species.
If these were men, this topic would have been forgotten atleast a year ago
True true, aunt nothing wrong with having a little faith in someone, that actually shows that Kenya thought more of Phaedra than she ACTUALLY IS!!
When bob said to Sheree he ” IS REMORSEFUL” 😂🤣😂🤣 even Stevie Wonder would be able to see he isn’t serious 😂🤣and you SEE HOW EASY it was for bob to just give up too, and say ” ok let’s stay broke up”?? That said ALOT!! When a man don’t FIGHT for you…. DASH DAT AWAY AN DONT LOOK BACK!!
You can hear the little ” jealously” when kandi say ” it’s weird how Kenya and Phaedra are closer than her and Phaedra ” … kandi a bit jealous…. or maybe deep down Kandi thinking their whole so called new found friendship is a joke!
I think you’re first theory is correct. She sounded like she did when Phaedra and Nene became friends. Just jealous she is.
Tod ( porsha man) still just looks like the broke as loser who got to tag along on the trip😂🙄… seeing him is starting to annoy me now 🙄
Cynthia acting like she not all wet around peter still 😂🤣😂🤣😂🙄
😂😂🤣😂Sheree say porsha know where to find the Penis blindfolded 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣…OOOOOOOH the BIG PALM TREE SHADE 😂🤣😂🤣🤣
Bob jus told CANNOT HIDE who he really is!! SIMPLE!! You can only fake for so long, before true colours come BURSTING out!!
Phaedra too! As Sheree said, she can only be fake for so long.
Yup!! I just CANT WAIT to see what defence these FAKERS are gonna use at the reunion 😂🤣
You & me both. I hope Andy weighs in with the receipts lol
Oh you KNOW he ALREADY ready with RECEIPT UPON RECEIPT 😂🤣😂🤣
Sheree need to run far away.
Far away like Forrest Gump!
Run FAR An run like a THEIF in the night!!🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I know that’s right! Him grabbing her wrists and refusing to release her to keep her from leaving….I’m sure that’s all the flashback to physical abuse Sheree needed to make her decision to leave him in the past. That was very disturbing to me.
I know!! Bob need to meet the RIGHT woman An try that shit and get FLOYD MAYWEATHERED!!👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
Sharee- ain’t no sorry bih (piles voice) 😂 But seriously, cut all that begging for a apology out- wit cho no tears self 😩😫😆
When porsha went to Phaedra room after she left the party and said ” girl you couldn’t nudge me or something, to tell me your leaving”shows porsha head still in the clouds An she not paying ATTENTION!! If Phaedra left you out already to take all the heat, porsha shouldn’t expect NOTHING from Phaedra going forward… but porsha DESPERATE for friend, so she chose to remain willfully blind and stupid to the fact 🙄
Girl, everybody knew Phaedra wasn’t sick but Porsha. Talk about an airhead…
These flashbacks bravo showing tonight are DANGEROUS 😂🤣😂🤣these heifers BETTER WATCH OUT at the reunion man😳😳
LMAO foreal all the fakeness is gonna come out
It’s HILARIOUS man 😂🤣😂🤣
I love Bravo’s flashbacks! Especially the mini flashback they showed of Kenya & Sheree’s convo.
These flashbacks are here to SLAUGHTER these fake heifers who think they can trick viewers 😂🤣
Lmao I love the flashbacks. They are showing how shady Fakedra is!
buh that tennis scene with Fakedra and kendoll LMAOOO both fake af
Sheree will never win that Emmy until she can make some tears fall.
Girl yes 😂 Shit was dryer then the Sahara Desert 😩😂
i honestly think she’s actually hurting, you can tell
In the car yes bc she wasn’t expecting that, but the boat was definitely scripted. They’re both crazy for letting this be a TV storyline. I feel sorry for their kids.
deading to rasssssss
Yep and sweaty makeup doesnt count lol
I would feel like SHIT if I was Phaedra, when Kenya brought up the fact that they prayed together 😖😖… that showed the extent of her double mindedness!! Phaedra gonna feel EVEN WORSE at the reunion when Andy brings up the praying 😂🤣😂🤣😂you know Andy ain’t making that slide AT ALL🤣
She’ll have come up with a great story for her behavior by then. Phaedra is always prepared at these reunions: Lies? check! Deflection techniques? Check! Sharp tongue? Check! She has them all in her purse, ready to pull out. There’s no way she’s giving up her Southern belle facade for any of these housewives -especially not Kenya!
😂🤣😂dis reunion GON BE GOOD !!
TV got the best of Cynthia and Peter…
Kinda sad.. I think they were perfect together.
I thought so too… just doesn’t seem like Cynthia is the marriage-type
only kenya’s miserable ass would wane celebrate a divorce
Sheree over there with sweaty Bob missing the beautiful sunset. 😟
When bob cursed and everyone heard and looked over I was like damn. Kick his big self off the boat and let her enjoy
why is fakeDRA still bringing up the texting apollo situation when he clearly cleared it up SMH, but i get why she would be upset about the divorce party
Phaedra bringing it up cause it’s ALWAYS been there!! She was just fronting to play tough and like it didn’t still bother her!! Plus Phaedra a Scorpio 🤣😂they NEVER forget!! My sister Is a Scorpio!!
Porsha was all too ready to defend
Phaedra AGAIN to Kenya about why Phaedra reacted the way she did to the divorce party, by saying things are still fresh to her, LIKE A BORN FOOL!! Porsha didn’t seem to learn that it’s best for her to just shut up after what her MOUTH done already got her in with Kandi!! And didn’t Phaedra tell porsha that nobody doesn’t know her divorce is final?? But porsha let it out ANYWAY 🙄🙄.. that girl got a classic case of diarrhea of the mouth!! And the SAD thing is… porsha realized what she did, when it was already TOO LATE 🙄🙄thats why she shut up QUICKLY after!! FOOL!!
How can Sheree say she had a divorce party and say u have to be at a certain level To have one…. Yet she was still hurting from Bob 2 minutes before on the boat. 😩😩😩😩
LMAOOO exactly what I was thinking, she was loving that party
i think she meant emotionally, as in completely over it and over the person. cynthias divorce isn’t even final yet and kenyas already throwing confetti
Exactly. Clearly not there yet, but she had a divorce party years ago.
Broke Todd doesn’t fit with the guys at all…
If Porsha threw the party… Pheadra would’ve been all up in it.
I get where she is coming from though- Kenya can not cross that line with her because it’s such a sore issue for them both.
yeah i remembered it like yday yes she aint the one that cause her marriage to end but she caused and participated in some public humiliation and even wen asked to stop she continued
Exactly she should have never thought it was okay to be the one to celebrate Phaedra’s divorce but yet again Kenya never thinks she’s wrong
she never thinks she’s wrong. that has to be some type of mental illness…tacky as hell
Maybe if Phaedra sat her down like an adult, and spoke to her like Cynthia did, she would have understood.
I think Kenya wanted to throw it for Cynthia mostly, BUT because her & Phaedra had been getting along so well, thought it may be rude to leave her out.
Good point! 👏🏾👏🏾
LIKE SERIOUSLY…. i said this at the top as well….. this is literally common sense.
Anyone could have figured that out
I see what you’re saying, but I guess Kenya felt safe thinking Phaedra was past it.
That’s what i said too, the hypocrisy of it all. Kenya is not the reason for Phaedra and Apollo’s divorce and it seemed to me that Phaedra was directing all the anger that came from her divorce on Kenya. Kenya didn’t start rumors that Apollo been cheating, Kenya wasn’t there when your husband was stealing money from innocent families, Kenya was DEFINITELY not there when he was spending all his money in strip clubs and bragging about it.
Phaedra needs to stop and be woman enough to admit that her couple was already on the rocks, the fact that he was obviously attracted and flirting with Kenya was just the cherry on top.
agreed took words from my mouth 😂💯
👏👏👏 man you betta preach…here’s the thing let’s just say it wasn’t Kenya but some bum chick out in the streets that was doing the samething Kenya was doing with the flirting…will Pherda blame the chick for flirting with her man as to why her marriage was over or in shambles??? No..because at the end of the day the person who stood before God and family is the blame.APOLLO is the reason for her sons being fatherless because of his will to steal people’s money…the flirting part should be the least of Pherda worried. Your husband is a 2x convcited felon. FOH
she didn’t blame her for the marriage being over…at all….she clearly said that. Kenya is an envious type of woman. She’s a misery loves company type. She did not respect the fact that Apollo was married when she initiated flirting with him. THAT IS ENOUGH to never even speak to her again. they aren’t bestie, they fell out over her flirting with apollo, so for her to throw a divorce party is tacky. I guess because Im happily married and love my family together as one, I don’t get the whole party thing. a family is broken up. Kenya was a part of one of the issues in her marriage. who needs the reminder?
You are projecting your happy home unto Phaedra’s dysfunctional one. Hers was a union borne from deceit and an “oops baby”. Their union was to save face for Phaedra for getting pregnant out of wedlock (recall her lying about her due date when she first appeared on RHOA). They entered their marriage never really knowing each other or suiting each other’s needs. Phaedra has every right to be angry over the dissolution of a family unit she tried to make work but it wasn’t one built on the right foundation. I feel for her in that regard, but dumping all that hurt on the wrong target is where I stop with the sympathy.
This is the most truthful comment I’ve ever read on these threads aside from my own. LOL
I don’t get the vibe that Kenya is wnvious of Phaedra …she may want a marriage but she definitely doesn’t need to be envious of their marriage it was hot mess full of lie from the conception of the baby to the end…
People are so focused how much of a mess the marriage was. Who’s business is that? That still doesn’t make Kenya actions okay. Kenya is envious of any woman who has what she doesn’t. Women like that don’t envy just perfect situations, it’s the idea of marriage and family itself. No one said she wanted what they had but she sure did flirt with that man.the condition of phaedras marriage and all the details about their relationship still does not allow other parties to be disrespectful.
You’re probably one of those married women who thinks it’s everyone’s dream to get married and every single woman out there is jealous of you.
If anything, theres Kandi and Cynthia’s marriages to be envious of to begin with.
Kenya could have had apollo if she wanted… this was very apparent
At the time when she was flirting with apollo , Kandi wasn’t married and she tried it with Peter also. Remember the grinding on peter? He just didn’t go deeper with it. I’m looking for where I said she was jealous of Phaedra. She’s a jealous person period!!! She’s made it obvious that she wants a husband and kids. Anyone who has that particular situation.
And let’s be respectful and not make assumptions about a person just because their opinion opposes yours.
I’m actually one of those married women who never cared or dreamed about being married because I was busy building my own foundation. I never had to mention marriage to a man and never would have. Marriage is something that came to me because it was in Gods will. My parents are still married. My husband’s parents are married. So I come from families who respect marriage for what it is. I don’t care what someone else’s marriage is like, it wouldn’t give me the right disrespect it because it’s a less than perfect situation.
Soooooo because she made it obvious she wants a husband and kid, that makes her a jealous person? I’m struggling with your logic over here
Her behavior throughout her time on the show is what makes me think she is a miserable, envious person. And vice Versa. Everyone’s perspective will be different . I have discussions on a daily with colleagues so someone else’s logic and opinion isn’t a personal struggle of mine. It’s easy for me to understand that people see things differently.
I love your testimony!
flirting doesn’t not make you envious it makes you inappropriate, but i guess i just agree to disagree. I think people judge her way too harshly imo.
Kenya is envious of Phaedra? Okay, now I have officially heard it all.
Please please please…. I really want to know where Kenya initiated this flirting thing. I’m pretty sure Apollo called bullshit on it and apologised for the lies and damage he caused.
do you happen to know them personally? just curious
LOL at a family is broken up. Phaedra has never seemed that bothered…. just saying
isn’t this one of the issues Kandi had with her as well? Behind the scenes she’s happy she’s free but in front of the camera, Phaedra turns all woe is me sob sob blah
To me, it’s very simple. Obviously, Kenya is not the cause of the demise of their marriage, but she crossed several lines and there was a lot of friction between them about that for a long time. Why even consider throwing her a divorce party with the history that they have regarding Apollo. Like, why? People don’t know how to stay in their lane.
I guess Kenya thought Phaedra was over it as she certainly acted like she was. So I can imagine that Kenya felt blindsided when Phaedra threw it up in her face.
Naw! They aren’t close and it wasn’t her place. Divorce parties are usually thrown by the divorcée! Kenya is tacky and per usual, she does inappropriate shit. She’s too old to not know better.
I guess she figured since they were all on vacation why not? However, if she would have thought deeply about it maybe she would not have included Phaedra. There may even be some secret animosity on Kenya’s part. After being called a whore and false accused of trying to cheat with her husband, one wonders if she is not slightly happy over Phaedra’s divorce.
I completely agree! I still can’t get with the divorce party. I guess because I’m not the type to insert myself . If a friend told me she wanted one, then she will have one! I’m all in to support in whatever way possible.
You have to outright tell me you’re happy to get divorced in 10 languages before I stick my neck out!
like this is NOT rocket science. don’t see how people can even pick on Kenya here
LOL! I was blindsided by how strongly Phaedra reacted and I wasn’t even there.
say it again so the peoplee in back can hear you!! people don’t respect marriage these days so of course they wouldn’t understand Phaedra’s stance.
If she respected marriage and God like that, then she REALLY would have handled the kenya situation like cynthia had.
Phaedra is a walking talking paradox. she contradicts her self with every fresh sentence
Cynthia almost burst in to tears…
what’s your point? …….
Did Cynthia express her feelings or not?
Cynthia obliged because that’s what she does. She didn’t want the party. It upset her. Kenya didn’t acknowledge the fact that it was inappropriate despite it being clear that none of the women appreciated her gesture.
If I ever felt pressed to take it upon myself to throw a celebration of my friends relationship breakdown and they almost burst into tears, I am going to recognise it was a bad decision. The intention is irrelevant at this point. Sorry friend. Let’s not do this and change the theme and make light of my bad decision.
Kenya pushed forward regardless. When Phaedra arrived, she was uncomfortable from the jump. When she said not for me, just for Cynthia. Of Kenya was receptive to people reactions to her actions, she could of obliged that request and it just be Cynthias party.
The problem is Kenya never reads people by their body language or even by their actual words. She wants the reaction to be appreciative and anything else is either ignored (like Cynthia) or opposed (like Phaedra)
She still handled it like an adult no?
She handled it better than Phaedra did. But they’re two different women. They were both offended.
How Phaedra handled it was wack. Her being offended wasn’t.
Thank you. I do think that’s what everyone has been trying to say.
You don’t attack an unaware person that way. It’s mean and unfair
It was a joint event.. It really wasn’t meant to be that deep. and everyone was already aware that Phaedra started dating again.
Kenya probably figured i’d throw one for my friend and throw Phaedra in and do something nice for her and our new blossoming friendship.
Also maybe because she figured they both realised Apollo was a bullshitter and liar and they could unite as women on that front?
A divorce party is at deep
Well duh genius
It is very simple!
Right and Andy posted a snap saying some juicy tea was revealed during the reunion and according to “Gary with the tea,” Porsha allegedly smashed Apollo.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! OMGGGGGGGGGGGG……… I cannot wait
Thank you! Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Please say this over and over again…
You have selective hearing, she never said Kenya was the reason for her divorce.
Why don’t y’all see the bigger picture.Why don’t y’all get it?? The only thing i disagree with Phaedra on..is how she handle the situation.1.She didn’t have to pretend being sick. 2.She could’ve straight up pulled Kenya to the side or kept it real with her from the beginning. and 3.don’t call Kenya out her name in that text because y’all suppose to be friends now. But other than that i see where she coming from. Rather y’all think Kenya played a big issue in Apollo and Phaedra relationship problems or not. The fact is Kenya and Phaedra DID HAVE ISSUES all because of APOLLO.So she was the WRONG PERSON to be throwing a divorce party for Phaedra.I think Phaedra is okay with being cool with Kenya..but anything to do with Apollo..she Probably wants to keep that separate.Keep the pass in the Pass.Kenya had good intentions..and it’s not Kenya fault because Like Kandi said..Phaedra keeps everything to herself.So I’m not blaming Kenya at all..but its just weird how y’all don’t get what Phaedra trying to say.
Because Phaedra was not articulate with it
Ok? and i just made it perfectly clear for you.If you still don’t get it..that’s your own issue.
You asked a question.. I responded… no reason to get all emotional fam… life is not that serious…. especially not in the comment section …
THISSSSSSSSSS….. talking about sanctity of marriage…
If she really believed in the sanctity of it, she would have found a way to work shit out with apollo and stuck with him till the very end .. that’s what the bible says no?
I hate that bitch.
If Porsha threw the party then Porsha would of known her friends mental state and she would of known it was a good time.
Porsha knows her business. She knows her friend.
If Sheree had thrown the party, she wouldn’t of been happy about it either. Just as Cynthia wasn’t happy and was close to tears. It was distasteful for both women, not just Phaedra.
It was offensive because of who the host was
“You done left me in the room kissin dicks on tha wall” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I SCREAMED!!!!! But when Sheree said ” Stop it gurl… YOu know how to find a dick” I CRIED
Lmao OMG I just commented this too about Sheree’s comment. That had me rolling 😂😂😭😂
I laughed at that too! And when sheree said “come on, Porsha knows how to find a dick!” 😂😂😭😭😂😂
Ughhh please check these videos after posting. Dont know why they are not working lately. Yardie, it keeps stopping when I hit play
ITS been like this for WEEKS now, and there has been NUMEROUS posts about it and to no avail! Forcing us to have to go to other sites and come back just to comment!!
I can only play on my phone…keeps stopping on my iPad. …errrr
Me too!! Well as long as we can still watch 😊
It’s the same on my apple products but fine on my Samsung s7
Pheadra better ready for the flashbacks at the reunion!!!!
Kenya looked great in that yellow !!!!
She really did, she is always slaying!
They better quit playing around with prayer
Phaedra is a repeat offender
More like a SERIAL offender 🤣
Lol, that’s the word I was looking for!
Sorry but Phaedra reminds me of a badminded teletubby especially in the scene in her hotel room walking to answer the door
Her body looks gross
This is so apt.
Porshaaaaa! You read the damn texts out loud before proofreading it???
😂 damn Phaedra went in and Porsha just read it like the teacher assigned her to read some textbook page 5 paragraph two 😩😩😩
Lord fix my sister Porsha amen 🙏🏾
phaedra told her to read it
Phaedra is sooo fake arghh. I don’t blame Kenya for thinking they could be friends; they already settled their issues about apolo. Can’t she see that Kenya had good intentions?
This season Phaedra is definitely not my favorite but I completely understand why she was not feeling Kenya celebrating the end of her and Apollo. Of course the Christian thing to do is to try to forgive, but Phaedra is still a human. She remembers and can never forget (it’s recorded and has been replayed for several years on national TV) how disrespectful Kenya and Apollo were towards her marriage. The playbacks only captured half of what happened.
Kenya is the one who vocalized she was texting Apollo.
During the reunion and especially a proceeding vacation, Phaedra pleaded with Kenya not to talk to Apollo and Kenya completely disregarded her.
we can’t overlook the fact that Apollo even said he lied…….. so her real issue was with her husband because if Kenya was really with it..Apollo would’ve been down to do it. Plus I always felt that if Phadera wasn’t pregnant, then those two never would’ve married in the first place because he never seemed to be that into her.
Apollo’s lie doesn’t negate Kenya’s disrespect. I’ve never had a co-worker act that way with any man I dated. I don’t know any women who would appreciate her actions if they were in her shoes.
I’m not saying Kenya wasn’t disrespectful but Apollo wasn’t innocent either. My problem is don’t place blame only on Kenya , but her husband too.
Then he lied! Said she did something she didn’t do all to get at his. Pheadra
Don’t just check the woman , check the man too …. a woman can’t flirt, etc if the man don’t crack the door
Listen! I tell my husband constantly I’m not a babysitter of a grown man & don’t ever let a woman come to me saying ” I’m coming to you as a woman” lol!
Loool “…I’m coming to you as a woman!”
Yeah we’re saying the same thing. My comment addressed Kenya and Apollo both being disrespectful.
If it stopped at the Apollo lie it would be one thing but Kenya refusing to respect their marriage by insisting she talk to Apollo in Phaedra’s abscence and throwing jabs at Phaedra about the situation when Apollo isn’t around places Kenya in a spiteful light.
EXACTLY!!!! HOW PEOPLE DON’T UNDERSTAND THIS BAFFLES ME
Actually Kenya vocalized that Apollo had been texting her!
not gonna lie Mr Worldpremiere thank you so much
phaedra had a point and i do understand where she coming from and y she never wanted to be apart of kenya’s BS
Fake-dra!!! This bitch is such a snake!
WHY is Cynthia so phucking corny? Just why?
She’s lucky she’s gorgeous lmao.
I think Kenya was out of place for that party..
Yup!! Misery loves company!! She GLAD Cynthia and Phaedra joining her in the “singles club”
No she’s not. You guys turn anything Kenya does into something negative. Even her own friend Cynthia (who knows her more than any of us do) knew that she was coming from a good place.
I agree; I think she wanted an excuse to throw any party whilst also making light of a sombre situation but she didn’t read the mood well enough.
Well I only say that because of her relationship with Phaedra. As you you saw Cynthia’s reaction was much different than Phaedras.. I get why she did it but you just can’t go around throwing parties like that for ppl that are not your true friends..
Lol, I agree again. Kenya looked to be completely genuine in her attempt to work on a friendship with Phaedra, an attempt which wasn’t reciprocal on Phaedra’s part. This was further shown when Kenya confronted Phaedra in the hotel room; she spoke to Phae with an amazing amount of restraint for a woman who was having unfair (and untrue) accusations thrown at her yet again.
Phaedra should have just been really from the beginning.. eveything she said tonight she should have said long ago…
Her issues with Kenya were made redundant the night Apollo apologised for lying on her. Phaedra is mad and since the object of her anger is behind bars she has her next irrationally chosen target.
right. the MF admitted he lied… why are you still mad?^
He lied yes, but KENYA WAS STILL DISRESPECTFUL AF by flirting with Phaedra’s husband. So Kenya should NOT have literally CELEBRATED Phaedra’s divorce. Period.
Thank you thank you thank you. This is what i been trying to say. Apollo lying doesn’t clear you of the foul behaviour you actually did do, I don’t understand how people are forgetting how she behaved. She still hasn’t admitted her part in it or ever apologised
Thank you! Point blank period. Roll back the tapes she clear as Day flirted with this man!
Maybe she thought it’d be nice to throw Phaedra in while throwin one for Cynthia?
But the way Phaedra carrying on (present and past) made me believe there was some truth to the whole fiasco.. I’m not a RHOA historian but I do recall Kandi reading some text between K & A and was telling her that it was slightly inappropriate. And you would think Phaedra would have some kind of receipts to back up her claims. Like Bish did you never go through Apollo phone? Idk. All I know is Phaedra is fake and should not have opened the door for a “friendship ” with Kenya.
Sorry I disagree. Apollo’s lies do not gate her open flirting and touching of Apollo and going off on chats just the two of them when Pheadra had asked her more then once o stop it and to not be alone with her husband. Kenya was completely disrespectful of her marriage and it was those things that made the lies Apollo told believable and more hurtful, because they didn’t come out of thin air. Him lying was awful but this woe is me I got lied on thing Kenya has been playing is a joke. She lit the match and got mad when the fire spread. She just needs to take ownership of her part in it and never does, Her and Bob have that in common
APOLLO has no respect for HIS marriage. That simple, really *shrug*
I agree with that to. No ones getting off scott free but in this situation whats being discussed is why Phaedra was upset with Kenya and that was why. people seem to think that being upset with Kenya means She isn’t upset with Apollo or never addressed him about it. They were both to blame, I know I’d go nuts if my co worker was behaving like that around my husband and continued after i told her not to No one gets a free pass, not Kenya, Not Apollobut Kenya seems to think she deserves one because Apollo lied
I agree with you on the inappropriateness of it all. However, we’re mostly going off of the visuals of Apollo throwing Kenya into the pool – which she never instigated, he did off of his own volition. Also, we’re going off of inappropriate texts that fraud Apollo admitted was a lie.
Apollo wanted Kenya; no lie. Kenya lapped up the attention ON CAMERA; no lie. That was Kenya’s biggest crime. But after all the trips, peace talks and prayers between Phaedra and Kenya, I find it hard to empathise with Phaedra.
Lest we forget all the un-Christian things she said and did to Kenya (i.e. calling her eggs scrambled etc.), they both need to move on. Kenya is making an honest effort but Phaedra chooses to wallow in misery and misplaced resentment.
Maybe thats what others are going off of but im going off what i remember and that was a lot more then that one time in the pool. Im not counting the texts since we never saw them and then it turned out to be a lie. She flirted a lot with him and had those little inappropriate touches and comments so thats what im going off. I honestly think Phaedra could move on a little better if Kenya would have admittedtted that she was wrong fro that but she’s still denying it and just saying Apollo lied on her and theres never been an apology. I know i couldnt move on if the person wasn’t even sorry and just wanted to act like it never happened.
Totally yes some of Pheadra’s comments to Kenya ere so below the belt they hit the floor. It was her hurt talking but it wasn’t right.
I’m pretty sure Kenya apologised in the past.
Why are you giving me my life in this comment section dropping gems up in here!!!! Come through sis! 😂
Lol, I had time today XD
I just can’t wait for the reunion!!!
Phaedra may even be embarrassed because she did a lot of bragging about being a married woman only to be single again like Kenya. A lot of women do that, make like they are better than other women because they have a man only to find they were holding on to something that wasn’t worth holding on to. And the world saw it!
This is why one must never brag on something/anything! God/karma/the universe (pick the one that suits you) always knows how to humble someone. Remember that Phaedra and Porsha’s friendship started with their joint hate campaign against Kenya? Lording their marriages and fertility in Kenya’s face? Well, look at how the both of them ended up… A GIANT and televised lesson on humility.
Yes m’am! A haughty look goeth before a fall!!!
Tell it sis! 👏🏾👏🏾
So Apollo picking Kenya up and throwing her in the pool was an unfair and untrue accusation of flirting or do you mean Kenya questioning the lack of role playing in their marriage????????
Lol, whet?! You’re saying Kenya made Apollo pick her up? Cool 🙂
LMAOOOOO LIKE … I do NOT get it
Kenya didn’t tell him to pick her and jump in the pool carrying her. He could have pushed her in as she did him, or splashed her.
But did you not just say APOLLO picked Kenya up and not Kenya Apollo…..
urghhhhhh! Can’t you atleast comprehend your own write up
The role play bit i’m pretty sure that’s when her and phaedra were still close. Porsha would have said/ done the same thing …
Right?!? This is coming from the same woman who was lathering cream on her butt cheeks in front of Porsha’s man just ONE EPISODE AGO! The hypocrisy is staggering SMH
Fammmmmm…. honestly don’t get it
THISSSSS! that room scene pissed me off.
Goes to show that indeed Kenya is a better woman after all
She always believes in taking the high road after it’s all said and done
I don’t understand how ANYONE can take a friendship with Phaedra serious. She is so unstable with a southern belle facade shm.
She is a southern freak
Liar, hypocrite and fraud.
And she’s proven it in every friendship she’s managed to fake
I love how Cynthia was woman enough to own her part in why the marriage didn’t work.
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I felt a bit sad when she and peter was talking cause she wants to be in love so bad but i guess career and independence just gets in the way of most relationships.
I don’t care how many times it’s explained, I still don’t get why they are divorcing. From Peter’s vantage point it seems that Cynthia didn’t believe in him and wasn’t trying to ride with him. But he has to acknowledge that he is in a risky business and to someone who likes stability that is quite scary. However, she knew what he did for a living before she married him and went ahead.
They said they’re divorcing because they aren’t making one another happy anymore.
I understand but wasn’t sure how. It all seemed so subtle but then again we only see what the camera shows.
Yep. Everything you said before was right too. His business is really risky. But as a wife who said through thick and thin, you kind of have to be able to ride through the thins. It’s easier said than done of course, but nobody said a marriage is easy.
100% truth right there.
I like that too but I didn’t like how she took most of the blame. From what I saw, she was a very good wife. Not many women would put up with having to loan their husband money for businesses, those businesses failing etc she always supported him and had his back.
I remember a couple of seasons back Leon alluded to Cynthia maybe not being sure about being a wife material. I remember she had multiple engagements that she broke off. I value marriage but it seems like more and more people see it as too complicated an institution.
An see it as just PLAIN AND SIMPLY TOO MUCH WORK AND STRESS, when life ITSELF is already plain and simply hard and stressful sometimes as it is!
Yup, that’s why you got to choose carefully and not just because you’re lonely or think that’s what you need to validate your womanhood.
Yes he did. She stated she isn’t the marriage type, Leon has confirmed that. Her husband has confirmed that. But for some reason strangers feel like they know more than them.
I think it’s healthy to know what’s for you and what isn’t for you.
Kandi is currently doing everything Cynthia done for Peter wih Todd… and more. And going through the businesses failing etc. The difference is she isn’t slating him in the green screen so the viewers see her as being the strong supportive loving wife, as opposed to seeing it as her being taken advantage of.
A lot of it is about perspective
This is very interesting. Kandi definitely does not put Todd on blast and I think she is right to protect his name.
Of course she is!
im currently doin that with my husband its a lot so idk why cynthia taking all the blame
Are you dense? She admitted it. She was actually in the marriage. You saw what was shown on television.
Several woman would and do put up with loaning their husband money. Just as Kandi is doing now. There’s no difference
A real woman can hold herself accountable when she knows she is to blame or when she knows she has played big part in the relationships demise.
I loved that
The roast was painful to watch
I love the banner sign. It’s nice of Kenya to want to do something for the ladies.
Kenya is rubbing her hands like birdman at these women getting divorces🤔🤔🤔 miserable ass lonely ho Kenya is. Sheree’ just stop with those fake ass tears K? We dont believe you, you need more people. When Peter said that to Porsha maybe he was really saying he wouldnt be hitting Cynthia if Porsha got to him first🤔🤔🤔🤔 Bob is toooo ugly and sweaty! Just Yuck.
lol “Kenya rubbing her hands like birdman at these women getting divorces.” I can see that!
I knew Phaedra wasn’t Kenya friend she was just keeping her enemy close…NO ONE can be friends with the bitch that came after your Husband.. even if you work together you ignore that Slut and keep it moving… as for Bob I don’t think he ever had a Chance….. Sheree needed him for the season.. she knew Bravo would go for it and Now Shes Done with the situation.
Matt came through spilling the tea next week 🙊🙉🙊
Yes! I sipped my tea just like Kenya does in her confessionals!
People have divorce parties all the time. Even when people breakup they go out to
celebrate it with friends. I think Pheadra had an issue because the idea came from Kenya.
It wasn’t about celebrating a familY being separated ….it was about moving on
Agreed.. that’s why I agree with the person that said, “if it was Porsha that threw the party Phaedra would have glad no issues”.
Kenya should have known own that he and Phaedras relationship is nowhere near close to an extent of Kenya being able to do something like that..
Exactly…. Their friendship or whatever you want to call it isn’t has strong to have that kind of event
True, but also keep in mind that it wasn’t just for Phaedra.
Yeah but not from the bytch who was flirting withcha ex husband!!!! Smh. AND like Sheree said, THE DIVORCED WOMAN should be the initiator of the party
How come NOBODY else thought up of a divorce party but kenya🤔🤔…. think about it!! She TOO OBVIOUS, her true intentions cent hide from those who KNOW!!
Ace is just a big lump of SUGAR 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I swear Kenya knows exactly what she be doing. Its so her to be scheming and always has a hidden agenda. This ho never want anyone to be happy. If you cant hold on to someone like Matt’s ugly ass then you know something is wrong with YOU!
When Cynthia gave Peter that gift , saying she wants him to have something to remember her by, I thought it was going to be like a nice nude pic or something sexy 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣she gave Peter a Bible🤣😂🤣… still the best gift someone can gat though!! It’s just hilarious cause I KNOW Peter was hoping it was something sexy too🤣😅🤣😂🤣
Peters an old creep 😂😂
I thought it was a thong 😂😂
Peter WISH it was something relating to that 😂🤣😂🤣😂
She just posted a nude pic for her bday. I thought it was that.
Did she really?😵😳😲Cynthia gives the WORLD a nude pic an she gives peter a bible 😂🤣😂🤣😂
I know yall was like daaaamn @ Phaedra booty when she was walking to the door…lmao…..But I can’t wait till next episode. Psycho ass Kenya tryna act like matt is a lunatic when u sleepin with the guy…Guess u not that scared of him. She is dangeours…bet ya didn’t think he was gonna out ur stupid ass
No girl that booty was😖 Lol
Kenya DESPERATE!! That’s why she sleeping with Matt behind closed doors and acting like he the one chasing her!! That’s how she wants it to look cause she DESPERATO!!😂
His peen might be fire.and his sex game is A-1. Kenya using him a booty call. So what!!!
Men do it all the time ( ex: richard sexing Kathy behind closed doors then says: He don’t know why 🤥 Why she spazing out)
Matt don’t hate the player hate the game get out your feelings dude)
I literally just finished commenting this lol!
Thank you.. like people are beginning to sound like toddlers on here
She isn’t desperate, she enjoys the physicality of Matt, but he isn’t mature or intellectually stimulating enough for it to work. He’s like a fun toy boy. The sex is prob amazing (he said something like “dear Kenya’s new man… make sure she feels it in her stomach, and her legs shake, like they used to when she was with me” on instagram). He clearly loves her still, but he has become just a good time for her, and he is frustrated because she is giving him mixed signals, which a lot of women are guilty of.
Well you sure told me😂😂🤣. Everything you said is true!!
Thank you! only problem is,now that matt has outed her she will probably rile him up way worse or say she will dump him. He deserves peace and intense psychotherapy
Porsha introduced Phaedra to her surgeon. Now she has a real Donkey booty. Rewind to her butt that season she made a workout video wearing lime green.
Please… we all sleep with people that are bad for us at some point or the other…
stop grabbing at straws
The Issue I have with people like Pheadra is… If I apologized and we agreed to move on.. let it go..don’t wait for a moment to bring it up later. Either you let it go and move on or if you know you won’t be able to get over it, let me know so we can keep our distance. I hate having to walk on eggshells with people and they can bring up something you did 18 years ago when they are their feelings.
And girl, You wasn’t sick.
Amen, it’s so annoying having to deal with someone like that.
And just like she sent that text to Porsha the minute she was out the door, she could have pulled Kenya aside at the party and told her how she felt or even sent the text to Kenya.
No, she wanted to play the sick card.
When Kandi and Phaedra were close, Kandi would have never read a text that Phaedra sent after leaving the room or told about the finalized divorce. Phaedra lost a good friend when she turned on Kandi.
Now I do agree with that. She really does need to address her issues, especially when the opportunity is RIGHT THERE
But they already addressed it last season. After Apollo admitted he lied.
Thissss… Phaedra is crazy for real
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Thank youuuuuu …. AS A TRUE Christian should…. like Cynthia did.
Phaedra is fake as fuck…. has been from season 1. not sure how people can’t see this
Phaedra is one fake tight eye Christian.
That’s why I call her Fakedra 🤣
She let her jealousy show and her mean streak IMO. “Now Kenya finally has a chance with Apollo.” Girl, please. She knows perfectly well Kenya isn’t pining for Apollo, but phaedra wants to feel like she has something Kenya doesn’t.
But are there not boundaries that you can’t cross because of the things you did??? Like even mentioning my marriage at all when my issue with you 18 years ago was being in my marriage? I’m confused how no one sees that, please explain.
Yeah. I’m saying if both parties moved on, no one should mention the issue in the future.
I agree you should move on but I don’t agree that you can’t mention what someone did if it relates to something they’re doing now. Forgive but never forget.
Now see, I somewhat agree with you but the woman in me just can’t let go of my dislike of Phaedra to all the way agree lol.
If that’s the case then you address that when you decide to move on or at any point before the trips, hanging out, praying together, etc
i agree with you and i see exactly what you’re saying.. we can be cool, but there’s levels and we not cool like that, she had a part, small big or whatever. I just don’t think Kenya should have been throwing anyone no divorce party, it’s almost like misery loves company b/c she can’t even pay somebody to marry her crazy ass..
I have to tell you this, in such a situation, only the ‘side-chick’ moves on. For you whenever you see her its refreshed and you sort of even still fear that she could one up you in your man if that makes sense. But as we try move on, You cant involve yourself in our break up even 10 years later and it not bring back wounds. Cause as the wife or girlfriend you may have nagged about it a lot and it hurts both you and your man n relationship coz you never forget and start mistrusting. Its even worse how hard Kenya was going and felt she always had to solve issues with Apollo alone and even tried to work with only him at some point. Please try understand her. I am team Kandi and dont like what Phaedra done but i actually understand how such situations can affect even future relationships. Normal one time oops flirts are those you can take as normal coz they will always be there but not this.
I see what you’re saying. But Pheadra clearly feels some type of way, don’t try to befriend her and go on a mini trip with her.
Exactly. She should have just told Kenya that due to the past situation they had with Apollo, she would not feel comfortable celebrating the demise of her marriage with her. She didn’t have to take it there and call her trifling.
Very true she shouldn’t
What exactly did Kenya do with Apollo? did you people not just catch the clip where apollo admitted he made it all up?
And when kenya tried to work with Apollo alone, wasn;t it before the whole flirting shit came up? when she realised Phaedra was trying to bullshit her in regard to her pay?
Let’s stop playing
I guess it’s being over looked!!!! Smh
She was communicating with him without her. Phaedra told her it upset her but Kenya kept texting and calling him. Whether or not she was doing it for business or not, Phaedra told her it bothered her…So no, we can never be cool! But I would keep it 100%
Then Apollo should have stopped responding. That’s her hUSBAND, not Kenya
Absolutely! You’re correct but why would Phaedra ever be cool with or trust her again???
I would never be her friend. Point blank period! Kenya was a fool to believe an ex wife would let that go…Nah!! As a wife, let it be known. If you text my man behind my back, we will never be cool. In this life or the next, that’s a breach of girl code 101!!! Lol
Exactly … you Just said ‘Let it be known’
Phaedra should have done the exact same thing and ‘let it be known’
Apollo did not make up KeNya asking if she could have a threesome with them he didn’t make up her telling Phaedra to up her sex game they both admitted to text each other when they probably shouldn’t of even had each other’s numbers and when Kenya knew phe Felt some type away she still went out of her way to be caught with Apollo allone phe probably spent a lot of time arguing with Apollo about her so she did play a role in their divorce
Her and phaedra were close friends when she asked that question.
I swear Phaedra exposes her butt in front of POrsha’s todd.
They were friends,,,, there was a bit of freedom there.
They had each other’s numbers because of the donkey booty video. it was a business agreement. Phaedra refused to continue, apollo wanted to continue. her instructions should have been directed at apollo. Kenya was there for the production and the money that was to ensue as a result.
Kenya did not play a role in that divorce.
FML women are their own worst enemies man
?? Phadera was vividly uncomfortable when she asked that question and they knew each other for less than half a season. I would side-eye my best friend if she asked that question. Walking around with your butt in a towel or cleavage out (and yes what Pha did was 100% tasteless) as all the women do on this show even when they are around each other’s husbands on these vacations is not same thing as asking for hall passes and threesomes to one’s face because it exposes your intentions. Obviously their relationship wasn’t free if Phadera took offense.
Kenya did not play a role in that divorce at all, but I understand why it’s not her place to throw a party. Phadera still should’ve handled it better than she did.
Correction: they were not close friends at all. That is a bold face lie. As everyone recalls that episode, Phae was upset about it & everyone else was appalled by Kenya’s comment. Disrespect is disrespect. Stop trying to dismiss it.
She did not ask for a threesome. She said would you have one. She asks daring Q’s to all the housewives & partners to spice up the show. She led Gregg the same thing.
She flirted with him constantly. She may have not done the texting but with all that flirting and even in confessionals at first sight she said she liked him. And that had been happpening all through. The moment she met him, I just watched last 2 months from season 5. I dont like Phaedra but she was dead wrong
I agree there should be boundaries but continuously bringing it up and not being real about the issue IMO shows there is still no forgiveness.. and I get it ya know? Take ya time but don’t fake the funk..
She doesn’t continually bring it up though. She brought it up because the person who caused so much contention within her marriage is now throwing her a divorce party. You like Kenya so much you can’t see how that can upset someone?
You talking so much but did you read anywhere where I said Kenya was right? (Cocks head to side) 🤔
Phaedra has brought up her marriage to Kenya after the whole shindig, so I can see how Kenya could have assumed that it was officially Water under the bridge. The woman just wanted to have a good time. Since Phaedra is such a ‘good Christian’, she could have taken time out to explain to Kenya why she wasn’t appreciative of her gesture.
She just wants to look for a reason to stay mad in my opinion.
I down understand how being a Christian has anything to do with it. Being a Christian doesn’t mean you dont have feelings. It’s ignorance to assume someone doesn’t have all degrees of emotions because they love Jesus. Stupid
People who can’t make a point without throwing in insults, usually have low IQ’S.. so now i’m struggling btw if I want to entertain you or not.
Being a Christian has a lot to do with it considering Phaedra prides herself on it. and uses it to make everyone else look like a heathen. You can have emotions YES, but it’s how you handle your emotions that says a lot.
You can go around acting like lucifer all the time and be saying Jesus, sweet Jesus blah blah and not expect anyone to call you out on your BS
I have a high IQ. I guess the ‘usually’ left room for the exception so that’s okay.
The Bible says a lot about the heart of man. That’s what God is also about. The person who God called ‘His heart’ in the bible was a liar, am adulterer, a murderer, and I could go on. But yet still, his love for God was unmeasurable. A man’s actions shows his weaknesses. It doesn’t show their love for God.
She can love the Lord and be imperfect. She can love the Lord and be a criminal, and adulterer, a murderer etc and still have a closer relationship with God than someone who ‘appears’ to be holier than though.
The Bible also speaks of people who will go to church and do everything right, and he will say to them ‘I knew you NOT’
Because the relationship you have with God is not evident by physical behaviours. If Phaedra wanted to paint a picture of being a church belle than she wouldn’t be turning up in barely there outfits with her ass cheeks hanging out. She oumdnt be having saucy conversations with Porsha about sex and getting her booty squeezed. What I see is a complete woman. Who is imperfect but religion plays a big part in her life. She does charity work. She has a strong passion for the black movement and empowering the youth. And she has contentious relationships with her friends. That’s a balanced human being
That’s my understanding of it anyway. We can agree to disagree.
Preach on it. I hate when ppl think just because you’ve claimed Christianity and then turn the hell up it’s ok to call that person a hypocrite. Call me a hypocrite for something else, but not my religion. I’m a human being with just as much emotion as the next guy. I’m imperfect, but I try to carry Christ in my heart at all times so that my actions more so than my words can reflect the God in me. But I will curse a nucca out if I feel like he or she is trying my often calm demeanor because they think I won’t jump.
It’s actually a shame because it means that people who do have a relationship with God are reluctant to speak on it because they feel like they will be judged for their imperfections. Out of all the hundreds of names in the Bible, including great men and women there was only three who were sinless. One being Mary who was probably about 14 years old. Which means even children her age were not without sin. Even still God said his heart was David, who was a murderer, adulterer, etc.
I think it’s refreshing when women like Heavenly and Phaedra incorporate their religion in to these shows. Speaking to a pastor regularly on the issues you are having in your life, recognising your imperfections and praying on it.
I agree with you. Call them a hypocrite because of hypocrisy. You can’t call someone a hypocrite because of their religion.
Your point is mute tbh!
Okay then. 🖒
Phaedra DOES paint a picture of being a church belle which is my damn point.
and if you go ahead to deny this then fam….. i’ll just avoid your comments all together cus you’re in deep denial .
If you say so fam. Lol
How can someone ‘act’ like they’re a church belle, and parade around half naked at the same damn time?
She’s acting like a thot, AND she’s acting like a church belle?
That kind of makes no sense hun.
sigh! You just love me is all
The man made it up! That’s why bravo kindly reminded us with the flashback, so what’s the problem exactly?? There shouldn’t be one.
He made up that she tried to get at him but not the texting
The problem is she was texting him. They were both flirting with one another. He lied about her giving him head or something but the rest was all real. I really hope a woman doesn’t ever do that to your relationship and you ever be dumb enough to think you could ever fully be friends with this same person.
Maturity is apologising for believing the lie about the head. Maturity is agreeing to move on. Maturity is also never forgetting what happened to you and ever being in a position for it to happen again.
I get you like Kenya but what she DID do was very inappropriate and disrespectful. Repair can be made from that, but don’t throw me a divorce party. That’s tactless. I don’t believe Kenya done it maliciously, but Phaedra is the person that felt that hurt and that brought it back to her.
Forgiving is one element. Forgetting is not something you can chose to do.
Confused ain’t even the word for it. 😂🤣A mofo is perplexed af by the comments in this thread.
Yeah but Kenya was out of pocket. SHE did flirt heavily with Apollo, and she DID create unnecessary tension in she and Pheadra’s friendship by seducing Apollo. So for her to throw a divorce party was in poor taste. That’s like someone letting you a drive a car you didn’t know was stolen and throwing you a party when you get outta jail. Really?!
This.. I don’t think kenya was being nasty. ..but I get were phaedra coming from. I think phaedra should have said i don’t feel comfortable then left. I hate when she do that stupid shit, she need to Just be honest. Kenya don’t get it. You can say sorry and let go all you want but the pass don’t change. it take time to meND friendships and sorry don’t erase the pass. Then kenya apologize about the pass but when it come back to surface she makes excuses. Kenya apologies are always empty. I Wish Phaedra Speak up more. Even when she finally talk it like she don’t say enough.
But did she have to go at her like that? To me she is a master at making someone look bad and she was really out of pocket. And I agree with you all the way. Also Kenya believes in sorry but herself she doesnt forgive
Agreed Phaedra is great at painting pictures, manipulating situations, and twisting truths…to make her frenemies look bad and put herself in a good light.
Lies she told the truth period if you were involved in that situation you would understand I don’t think Kenya did it out of spite tho
What situation? & no she did not tell the truth. Apollo lied & Phaedra was in on it.
THIS!!!!! like seriously that woman is EVIL.
with Kenya in the earlier season, then Kandi, then porsha….
really she does no good
Okay,I think you just sold me with that example. I get it now.
Girl Apollo was out of pocket. He flirted with Kenya and she laughed. He picked up Kenya(that was straight disrespectful). I honestly think Phaedra is intimidated by Kenya because her husband found her beautiful and sexy. He wanted Kenya it was clear!! If we ain’t friends say we ain’t so I leave you tf alone. I like Kenya but I hate when she tries to be nice to these fuckers all the time or try to mend relationships that doesn’t wanna be mend.
You reaching.I really don’t think it has ANYTHING to do with looks in this situation.
I think phaedra is very comfortable with her looks.
I doubt it, she is shaped like a Pepsi bottle whereas Kenya is shaped like a Coca Cola bottle.
LOL! you are clearly trying to convince yourelf that phaedra isn’t threatened by kenya’s looks
That’s your opinion.Why do i have to try to convince myself of anything? Girl it’s not that serious.I just don’t think looks has anything to do with this situation.I personally never got that from her..That’s nice y’all stand by your girl Kenya..good for you.Like i said..i really doubt Phaedra is insecure about her looks..has nothing to do with any of this.
Are you REALLY sure it’s not that serious????
I don’t understand why Kenya fans never see anything from a rational stand point.
Porsha is beautiful and Todd is clearly is attracted to her. By their reasoning that would mean Kandi is threatened…..
I think not
I think the difference is Kandi knows Todd isn’t going to cheat on her. Apollo and Phaedra dynamic was way different. In both situations the women are the breadwinners however Phaedra kept Apollo on a leash and Kandi works with Todd like a business partner and treats him as an equal. I saw towards the end Apollo being resentful of Phaedra. Plus Apollo and Todd are two different men, Apollo never had anything legit and been scamming. Todd was a successful (moderately) producer and its how he met Kandi through the show.
This is coming from a Kenya fan so.
I half agree with you. I think Phaedra is confident in herself and her looks however that doesnt have anything to do with being insecure when you see admirable or attractive qualities in someone else. Insecurities don’t have to make sense, in fact most of the time they don’t because its more about you see the things in other people you don’t have. Besides, in that case it mattered more about what Apollo thought. Phaedra KNEW Apollo wanted Kenya and that was enough to make her insecure, it would make anyone insecure to have a triffling husband.
Its not like Kenya is Porsha. Kenya is ok. But Porsha is a dime..
what does this have to do with shit?
You making it seem like kenya is this dime but im telling you straight men would rather go for porsha. aint nobody threatened by kenya
I’m still confused as to how this became about Porsha….
I’m pretty sure I was comparing Phaedra and Kenya… or have Porsha and phaedra become one?
My point is pheadra shouldn’t be intimidated by Kenya’s looks. Kenya doesn’t look better than pheadra
Ah…. took you a while to get here
If you were glasses, you might want to check your prescription.
Kenya is that good looking to you?
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LOL! you stay missing the point bro. you stay missing it
Lmao! Let me explain what I think you are talking about.
You are saying Pheadra is intimated by Kenyas looks. And im saying they are both on the same scale when it comes to the looks part.
I just added Porsha cuz she thick as hell..
Lies! You know damn well Kenya is not on the same level as Phaedra, we all do. Phaedra even knows. In one of the reunions (I think the one in which Kenya addressed Phaedra for talking about her complexion), Phae had so much to say up until the moment Kenya said she was still prettier than her. At which point the cat caught her tongue & she looked super embarrassed because the facts were told. At this precise moment Phaedra knew she had been read.
Ok. Maybe I was reaching with them being on the same level. But they not that great apart. Pheadra should be more threatened by Porsha
Phaedra isn’t threatened by Porsha for the same reason Kenya isn’t…she’s an airhead. Pretty but sadly not much substance. Men looking for a barbie or “trophy wife” will be attracted to Porsha. However those looking for the full package won’t be. Phaedra knows this & I think in a weird way likes this. She feels intellectually superior, as we see in her earlier confessional comments.
Pheadra talks a lot of shit in her confessionals. Looking forward to the reunion where she will have to answer people face to face
Kenya is pretty & intelligent which is why Phaedra felt threatened. Porsha is pretty & has bought a great body, but she’s an airhead.
Porsha didn’t buy any more body parts then the other women. Porsha looks great in the face and she is naturAlly thick. The boobs just enhance her looks.I don’t think she has butt shots. I think as she gained weight her ass got bigger.
She sure did! Porsha did her boobs (as you mentioned), nose (I saw the video on Instagram) and butt (body fat transplant). Phaedra has recently done her butt too (as we saw in this episode). Think back to her work out video.
I knew Porshas face has changed from her 1st season. The nose can change your whole face. I knew pheadra ass looked bigger. I remember when she used to say donkey booty and I was thinking to myself her ass isn’t even big back then.
Yep! It really does. Their makeup artists are also amazing… & Porsha’s face is always beat! Even in the hotel scene & the massage on the beach scene with Todd, she had on natural looking makeup to give the impression she was bare faced.
Same! I used to think what donkey booty?!! Lol. & now she really has one. They all do it though. It’s become more popular than a boob job amongst the celebs.
All the women look amazing these last seasons. Its amazing what a good make-up artist can do. The fat transplant to the butt doesn’t look bad on black women. It suits them and looks natural. But it looks odd when white women do it..
You sound like YOU must be walking around insecure. There are several women who are more beautiful than YOU are. Are you intimidated by them?
For every beautiful woman, there is a more beautiful woman. MOST secure women are not intimidated by other women just because they are beautiful.
We are talking about Phaedra, not me, not other women…
If you can’t comprehend then i’m sorry
LOL! I’m actually extremely pretty ….. it’d be hard for me to ever feel insecure…
You are stunning I am sure. There are extremely pretty women everywhere and I’m sure none of them, not even the small percentage of women who may be even prettier than you are can make you feel insecure.
As I said before MOST women who are secure, are not intimidated by another woman’s looks.
And Phaedra strikes me as being secure so I can’t see why she would be intimidated by a Kenya. There’s stunning women all over ATL.
I mentioned you and most women because most people form opinions based on what they’re exposed to. If you can’t comprehend that then ‘I’m sorry’ (LOL)
UMMMM… an insecure person is an insecure person regardless of what anyone is exposed to.
Insecurity screams loud as hell
but hey…. go on with your logic and I’ll go with mine
Yes, we can agree to disagree
right, like do we not remember Kenya asking them if they role play and telling Phaedra to step her game up, as if Kenya had all the freaky answers, in front of her husband. Stuff like that is bread crumbs you don’t need to drop, not in front of my husband, lil bird, that will get you popped in the mouth. How about you not worry about our bedroom situation at all.. mmkay?!
The same women that said Phaedra was inappropriate last week. Kmt
your point? two different situations. i am team nobody, i call it like it i see it and she can be wrong in a situation and right in another.. move along comment police. thanks
Two different people you mean. The exact same situation.
I’m going to ‘move along’ because you told me to. Because it seems today YOU are the comment police. Lol
Kenya asked everyone that question though. Also that same night Apollo threw her into the pool Kenya twerked and dropped it for Peter. They were all having fun. If anyone should have been mad at “seducing” it should have been Cynthia because Apollo was 100% the aggressor but Kenya was the one dancing up on Peter.
Yeah, Apollo is the one who was married. People need to stop blaming Kenya. That’s what’s wrong with our society where people blame the woman, when they should be blaming the married man who is stepping out on HIS marriage or acting inappropriately even though HES married.
But she doesn’t have to like her! No! Phaedra just should have been honest and real
Apollo isnt throwing the divorce party
I think what’s wrong with society is people not blaming both the way equality is supposed to work.
A woman who knows a dude isn’t any more or less innocent than the dude who is married. Takes two. Both sexes are responsible for respecting boundaries as adults. It’s not hard to not flirt with a flirtatious married man unless you want it, too. Apollo took being full of shit to a new low, though.
THISSSSSS! I just think Kenya is super mature and a lady hence why she thinks it best to be nice and talk things through like an ADULT WOULD.
Clearly these ladies were raised differently. To think Kenya is the one without a mother, yet she’s so well mannered and composed.
Truth all day.
And so what if she was threatened? Kenya is beautiful and she was clearly attracted to Apollo. They mutually flirted. So you think your man doesn’t find beautiful women attracted too? That’s normal and healthy. What isn’t healthy is that they both took attraction to another level. Todd is clearly attracted to Porsha, that’s fine. If they both started texting one another and Kandi had an issue with it, you don’t think Porsha should stop texting Todd??? You don’t think Porsha has responsibility? Or you think it’s fine because Kandi is clearly intimidated because of how beautiful Porsha is.
See how DUMB that sounds!
Phaedra openly asked her to stop initiating conversations via text with her husband, and Kenya continued to text him.
I’m sorry but that was wrong. Apollo was wrong. Kenya was wrong.
Logic. Like damn.
The texting storyline was embellished. Kenya was the one that said tell your husband to stop texting me. He reacted by saying she had been texting him & he had ignored them all & Phaedra consigned to save face. Yes there were texts but nothing scandalous. The flirting that took place was on camera. Kenya asked an inappropriate camera as she did w/ all the housewives & husbands to boost ratings. The only difference is Apollo clearly fancied her, whereas the others just laughed & took no notice or shut it down (Nene). The pool scene was all Apollo. Instead of pushing her in or splashing her, he picked her you& jumped in.
Thank you!! People forget that Kenya dropped it and TWERKED on Peter and Cynthia didn’t bat an eye. That’s because she knew it wasn’t serious. If anyone had a bases for a storyline or even a “back up off my man” it was Cynthia.
They were both out of pocket. Apollo can take an L for exaggerating, though.
She didn’t seduce anyone, Apollo admitted it himself that he made everything up. And Phaedra and Apollo had way more problems than Kenya. If your man can be seduced as you claim, then HES the problem, not the woman. We need to stop blaming the other woman and blame the man that is actually married or committed.
Apollo didn’t admit to making up EVERYTHING. he admitted to lying about meeting her in new york and her offering him head. The texting back and forth was a REAL thing, kenya admitted that herself when she said in that flashback, “tell your husband to stop texting me”. I think everyone is missing the point. sure its easy for kenya to get over it and move on…. when it ain’t your husband, you don’t have kids. It is poor taste to throw a party when, yes we are moving on and trying to build a friendship BUT you still have a negative part of my marriage and i don’t discuss my marriage with you. you have no right. yes you blame the man but YOU CAN AND SHOULD blame the woman also for flirting with your man, if she knows your married to him and you guys are friendly.
I agree with you on the last point – the woman should share the blame for her part in any infidelity. This “blame only the husband” feminist b.s. is one-sided – it is your fault if you sleep with a married/attached man and you should feel bad.
However, Kenya did not sleep Apollo. The accusation is the texting.
Also I side with Phaedra on the disrespect of a divorce party and denigrating the institution of marriage. It is tacky and someone who hasn’t been married would think it’s cool out of good intentions. I wouldn’t want any parts of it either, good intentions or not, but her reaction revealed she’s been faking with Kenya all along.
I don’t think she has been faking it. Faking it for what reason?
She is ‘trying’ to rebuild something. If this tactless party never happened, old emotions would not of been brought up and they would still be cool.
The fact that she still remembers what happened doesn’t mean she is being fake.
There’s shan shan bailey defending the indefensible again. Yawn. Stop replying to all my comments, please.
If you didn’t want my response, you wouldn’t of replied and given me window to reply back you.
It really would of been that simple. But then again, common sense isn’t common anymore is it.
Common sense certainly isn’t in your wheelhouse seeing as you can’t follow simple instructions like “stop replying” and instead your lackwit mind interprets that as “she wants me to reply to her again.” I don’t argue with fools because, from a distance, you can’t tell the difference between a fool and rational person, so no, I won’t engage with you. Begone.
But yet engaging is exactly what you are continuing to do. Sounds pretty foolish to me. Lol
Yet still, engaging is exactly what you’re continuing to do. Sounds pretty foolish to me tbh
word lol mines too
You’re joking! LOL
Not at ALL! LOL..its sad
I think saying divorce party denigrating the institution of marriage is a stretch. Like come on. It’s obviously not a party saying “yay your marriage failed, you made bad choices” but its something to do to encourage or cheer someone on like “yay you made it and are moving forward in the next chapter of your life, where you will be for the better”. To say anything else is a reach.
Divorce in which the family is broken up is serious and even traumatizing to some people, and less serious to the “I don’t need a man” types. I suspect we won’t find common ground on this issue, with all due respect.
yea I agree she shouldn’t have threw that Divorce Party PERIOD especially for Phaedra…Throw another type of party…
He admitted to lying about the texts too when they were on holiday having cigars.
Phaedra wanted out of the marriage long before it was over. They only got married because she got pregnant in the beginning. The marriage wasn’t built on a strong foundation and honestly if Apollo wasn’t going to be a “kept” man I don’t think he would have married her in the beginning. Apollo is a criminal he lied about Kenya coming on to him and being inappropriate over text. Them texting isn’t a big deal. I text my close friend’s husbands we are all friends, especially not inappropriate if you all have a business deal.
Phaedra BEEN over it. She is just milking it for the cameras and story line.
Kenya never flirted with Apollo and I stand by that (so does the footage if you go back to look). I do however think there were times she should have removed herself from the situation or times she made it seem worse. There were times she spoke to him 1-on-1 to clear her name or try to get him stop telling lies that only made the optics of the situation look bad. Even times where he sought her out or said stuff like “any one would be attracted to you” where she should have gotten up and walked away. However its a TV show and I bet those snake producers (you know Andy is messy af, encouraged her to continue), she only laughed in response and never said anything to egg or encourage him on.
I am pretty sure you was saying how inappropriate Phaedra was last week, and how you wouldn’t accept that from your friend.
The woman seeking attention is not to blame, as long as the woman isn’t Phaedra. Or your friend doing that in front tofu your man.
Basically so long as the woman is Kenya from RHOA it’s cool.
Flirt and seduce him how? Let’s not forget that in the clips that were shown, her and Phaedra were close at that point. Heck i’m good friends with my friends and their husbands, so theres a bit of openness and comfort amongst us
I get the feeling some people aren’t married and don’t have married friends, so they don’t understand the dynamic between married friends. Kenya’s comment wasn’t a big deal and it couldn’t “cause problems” in Phaedra’s marriage. Maybe the self-professed thousands of dollars spent at the strip club was a problem in their marriage, but what do I know…..
She didn’t blame Kenya for the break up of her marriage. Kenya just decided that was what she was alluding to. She said Kenya was an ‘issue’ in their marriage, and she was!
If Kenya ever decided to accept when she offended people then things could be resolved.
Cynthia walked in the room and had to hold back her tears. The party in general was done in bad taste.
But Kenya wasn’t an issue. Apollo was an issue. Apollo wanting to smash Kenya was an issue. If you say “hey, this brings up old feelings of how my husband wanted to cheat on me with you and pursued you” Then yeah, that’s fair because thats what happened. But don’t say “Kenya was an issue” like if Kenya wasn’t there it would have been ok. Apollo self professed to dropping stacks in the strip clubs every night, obviously he was looking for anything with 2 legs and a box.
THISSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!… isn’t it this simple urghhhhh
And if your good friend asks you to stop texting her husband as she feels it’s getting inappropriate, what would you do then?
They were no longer friends then.
They had a business agreement. Apollo decided to carry on with it.
She should have asked her husband to stop texting. Kenya didn’t owe her shit
Listen to my good friend…. 🙂
Were Phaedra and Kenya still good friends at that point? NOPE!
I completely agree. It isn’t about Phaedra not being able to move on its not like she randomly brought the situation up and got mad at Kenya. It was only brought up because of the divorce party that was thrown by a person who caused some issues in her marriage and didnt respect it from the very beginning. No, I don’t think Kenya was trying to be malicious, but I completely understand where Phaedra is coming from. 1. She isn’t here for the celebration of her divorce. 2. She isn’t here for the host being someone who initially didnt respect the marriage by flirting with her husband. She should’ve just told them straight up that she wasn’t feeling it though.
Girl. Wasting your time. I don’t even necessarily feel as though Kenya caused issues in their marriage but she didn’t respect it. Why did he have her number to text? And why were they engaging in conversation? Apollo ain’t shit but as a woman, why you engaging in aintshitness? And to throw a party to celebrate the death of that marriage? Lol. Come on.
Ummmm he had her number because of the donkey booty deal which is where the whole familiarity stemmed from. If i recall correctly, that video was meant to be both apollo and phaedra… the deal basically
thats what im saying.. like maybe apollo lied/exaggerated whatever and maybe phaedra is crazy as hell and an avoider/passive-aggressively extra.. BUT we all saw what Kenya DID do, the things that were shown on camera for us all to see.. and that there was too damn much. You respect boundaries with peoples significant others, especially their husband or wives and she might not’ve been the person I wanted to throw me a divorce party either..
All the stuff Kenya “did” Apollo was the aggressor.
I agree the divorce party isn’t cool unless the divorcees agree they want one…BUT at the same time Kenya and Phaedra had this discussion about Apollo (who lied about his story of Kenya) 2 years ago which Phaedra wanted to start off with a clean slate! As the fake Christian she is….she prayed with Kenya and said she forgives her…but if it REALLY still bothered her then why do all that extra stuff? like ACT LIKE you her friend and that you’re all cool with her. Like I can forgive someone but that don’t mean I want to be their friend afterwards I’ll just be cordial with you when I see you, especially if I don’t consider you a good friend.
I don’t think you have a right to call anyone’s Christianity fake. That sounds ignorant. Nobody is perfect. I’m sure you aren’t.
Hey said hey would start off on a new slate. And they did or didn’t they?
Phaedra chose to bring Kenya to her camp. She is clearly trying.
The divorce party was done in bad taste. And it riled up old emotions.
Forgiving someone doesn’t mean you ever forget how they made you feel. Whether it be 2 ears again or 20. If the divorce party never happened, this conversation wouldn’t of happened.
The woman who you have fought your husband over, should not be the one to throw you a divorce party.
Yes a fake Christian is a person that’s a Hypocrite even Jesus spoke about that in the Bible, if you didn’t know. I didn’t say she was suppose to be perfect but practice what you preach, if you mess up try to do the right thing not keep doing the same mistakes. NOW again like it was said even before they decided to separate, speaking of Phaedra and Apollo, she was speaking to other dudes so basically she did the same thing that Apollo did supposedly with Kenya. Two wrongs don’t make a right and then to lie and say oh we wasn’t talking like that…I don’t care for people always lying to make themselves look perfect or HOLY. But hey if you support that then that’s you…
If your friend is speaking to another man in her marriage, that’s your friends business. Not yours.
If you are speaking to your friends husband inappropriately, then that’s a problem! If she asks you to not speak to her HUSBAND as it’s becoming inappropriate and you continue to speak to your friends husband, that’s a PROBLEM! That’s YOUR problem. That was Kenyas PROBLEM.
What she has or hasnt done within her marriage does not excuse a friend being inappropriate wih her husband.
But hey if you support that yhen that’s you….
Your obviously not getting what I’m saying…My point is if you felt a woman messed up you marriage then why act like everything is cool and ya’ll friends? Why hang out with her? But Phaedra is like that she may not like you but she’ll be fake liking you just to keep the peace but behind your back talk ish. I hate females like that! Then she act like she’s Holy while wearing revealing outfits showing her boobs and butt and be telling lies! I don’t defend FAKE people but if you do, then do you…
Maybe you’re young and lack perspective. Of she was being fake then she certainly would NOT be coming on television wearing revealing outfits with her bottom hanging out all over the place. She isn’t trying to pretend to be perfect. She is being a human being who loves Jesus and has a relationship with him, but also likes to turn up and show out.
The fact she goes to church and plays an active role in democracy within her community is something that any woman can and should do! A stripper can leave the club and go and praise God in church on SUNDAY morning. She can also tell the world just how much she loves God and not be a hypocrite.
You said she acts like she’s holy while wearing outfits with her boobs hanging out… that doesn’t make sense. That means she doesn’t actually act like she’s Holy at all.
Nobody can look at a person externally and tell whether or not they have a genuine relationship with God or not.
You can say someone is a hypocrite because they said someone is a bad person for lying, but they also have told lies. But you can’t say someone is a hypocrite because they are a Christian. It literally doesn’t make sense.
Moving on from that. Phaedra never said Kenya messed up her marriage. She said that the host of her divorce party shouldn’t be the woman who played a role in complications she had within her marriage. If we are moving forward from it or not, that will always be something that Kenya done.
What you said was, Phaedra will be ‘fake liking you just to keep the peace’
If that is your view then why can that not be a positive trait. They are both on the same show. They have to go on vacations and film scenes together on a regular basis. There is no point being awkward with someone you can’t get away from. That’s a mature decision. That doesn’t mean she has forgotten and that doesn’t mean she has to be happy about her throwing her a divorce party.
You must have a lot of time on your hand to type almost a thesis paper defending Phaedra…we can agree to disagree…I’m done
I agree, BUT i really felt like Pheadra was just sending a shady message to her friend lol that wasn’t meant to be shared with everyone else (c’mon we all do it). In this moment, I do feel like Pheadra should be allowed to feel however she wants to feel. Her divorce is finalized and when relationships end you start to think of everything that went wrong and that Kenya thing was a big deal for a few years in their marriage. Should she still be throwing it in Kenya’s face? No. But I truly don’t think she meant for Kenya to hear that text she was just feeling a bit emo. Divorce parties are tacky, especially when the divorce is sooo fresh AND it wasn’t planned by the divorcee. Thats kind of like throwing me a suprise party to “celebrate” the death of my mother the day after the funeral. You run the risk of me feeling like it’s completely inappropriate. They’re just touchy subjects.
Apollo remarried. I’m sure Phaedra was more than fine.
she just wnated attention
Yeah Porsha was dumb for reading this out loud lol
no….no…no…We’re not going to get past it and apologize and you remind me of it all over again
I was talking in general, but in this instance you can’t really get past it… Like I said if both decided to get past it, both should never mention anything related to that issue.
My problem with Phaedra is that she backtracks a LOT and never want to own up to stuff she’s said …
Unfortunately, bravo keeps using flashbacks lol
Seriously, like they let it go and have been building a friendship and then she wants to pull this stunt of calling Kenya a trifling bitch etc. Phaedra proved how fake she is yet again.
I wish she would have been like “nah this isn’t for me” instead of the fake shit. It may have come off different . But still, Kenya ain’t her bestie, throwing her a divorce party is wack:
Yeah you know it would have been a different story if Frick threw her the party.
That’s why what I’m saying! Don’t make up, then every argument that stuff comes up!!
I still think we owe her a little benefit of the doubt, because if the woman who never bothered to NOT flirt with my man surprised me with a divorce party, I’d probably be triggered. But yes, unfortunately that’s brought out her worst side, tho I also think she’s trying to draw and deflect attention away from the situations at hand regarding Kandi.
She was sick! Sick of Kenya! Lol
Phedra full of dog shit.
So…. Porsha just told the ladies about the divorce being final…..
She can’t hold water.
That divorce cake looked good af tho.
Now this isn’t to knock all men but there are a lot of men who lack accountability for their wrong doings. They just assume that when they’re ready and want to go ahead and do a remix with you again, that all should be forgiven. Unfortunately, that’s not how life works. You can’t just sweep everything underneath the rug and pretend that you haven’t done shit all.
I agree. I personally been there. Not the same situation but the same reaction of not taking accountibiliy for the behavior. I am glad sheree got it out but man like bob will not get it until they have a chance to live and deal with there own pain. Sheree have to find a relief and let it go. The shit is hard but she need to find healing. The sad put about this is the only thing she need from him is a genuine apology and understand that he fuck up and she can move on from this. The power in that is something else. But he won’t gave her that because he gets off on holdin 1 of the keys to her healing.
If Porsha threw the party you would’ve seen Phaedra’s dumb ass twearking all types off sideways, pls stfu.
lol @ sideways
She would do that laugh with her tongue out she loves doing while having a plastic dick in her mouth.
Right, *cut to scene from White Chicks* when he’s talking to the dildo.
Woulda kissed that d*ck while poppin on a hand stand.
Peters an old slut Foreal mfs not divorced yet and he’s thirsting over porshas thirsty ass like she got
Her man there too and he’s saying she can get fucked 😂😂 smh
Pheadra is still mad because Apollo only married her because she was pregnant and she knows he was attracted to Kenya. Her anger is misplaced… her wack ass husband admitted he lied… yet you’re still mad.
She needs to be mad at herself for falling for his crap and him.
She shoulda just kept it real I could never ever trust a triffling ass hoe like Kenya she was tryna get with Apollo when he was around & if I was Phaedra I wouldn’t think twice about dragging the bitch 😂
But the thing is… Was Kenya ever Pheadra’s friend tho ?
I never understood why people are mad at a single woman when the man is the one in a relationship.
Preach👏👏👏 Apollo said his vowels before God…not Kenya…so Fakedra needs to jump bad at his lying ass…she knew he wasn’t shit when she married him…
That may be so but anyone, regardless if they’re married, with even an ounce of moral fiber should know better than to behave inappropriately with a married man or woman. I could never be friends with someone like Kenya and Phaedra is only a friend to Phaedra.
Right! Kenya been desperate and thirsty. She rented a boyfriend for God’s sake so you know she will do ANYTHING to call somebody her man. Phaedra shouldnt have been phoney she just should have kept it real, but Phaedra always being phoney
Apollo aint shyt! I could tell a LONG time ago he wasnt shyt. Then add a thirsty, desperate chick like Kenya flirting with him in the mix and its a recipe for disaster.
I honestly don’t feel as if the divorce party was done in bad spirit. I’m not married but I’m a product of divorce parents. You need the support of your friends during those rough times, even if it’s over some cake and penis games.
I think that’s exactly what Kenya intended it to be, but it just came across the wrong way. Maybe she should have called it something else.
When porsha an her man first came to the table the mood just changed QUICKLY 😂🤣they s STEADY be showing porsha how UNIVITED she An her dumbbell man was🤣😂an kandi face Just CHANGED an she start scratch her neck😂🤣😂 an d porsha just ignoring it WELL 🤣Cause she wants to enjoy the island… poor thing 😂
Why Phedra acting like she’s too good to kiss a dick now, wasn’t she just making that dumb face with her tongue sticking out talking ab out riding dick looooolllllll I can’t with it’s the southern belle.
😂🤣😂🤣kandi say to Cynthia at the roast ” say something bout the gray hairs on Peter balls” 😂😖😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
Teletubby Phaedra…can’t stand her hypocritical BS…woman of God my ass
So ready for the reunion…. Heard there was a bomb that dropped. can’t wait to hear it.
Dont know how true it is, but I read that Todd said Porsha slept with Apollo
Bs ..whatever 😏
I HOPE SO!!😖
Yeah I heard that…. But I doubt it.
Bish whettttttttttttttt????? 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
yea porsha addressed it on the ricky smiley show
I heard that someone said mr president ain’t apollos child
I saw it in some comments… I thought it was bogus that’s one thing you never say to someone 😩
Wait… what happened to the other lady that was supposed to join the show?
Phaedra needs to redirect her anger to the person who stood before family and friends and god and vow to do right by her through thick and thin and so on.
Kenya didn’t marry her, Apollo did and he broke all those vows. Yes, Apollo and Kenya were way to “buddy-buddy” but if you claim all is forgiving then forgive and move on, for real.
I get it’s easier to lash out at everyone else but whoever you have an issue with. He dogged her out and she’s allowed to be hurt by it all. However, there comes a point in time that you have to face your problems head on and not running around the bush. It could be possible that for her confronting her issues will make whatever she’s dealing with real, but who wants to lie in a fairy tale forever.
I get you totally but why not back down when you know you hurt someone. Kenya came out a bully to me. Phaedra loves Apollo you can tell, shes just too controlling but that’s something close to her heart she seems to have not let go. Imagine your man’s ‘side chick’ even 5 years later talking how Kenya did you’d still feel the pain. Even if they flirted how Kenya did its not easy. And remember Phaedra brought her around and would even go outside to talk to her in her ‘crazy’ moments and shed still show she has the hots for Apollo and lean to him.
He admit he lied about a lot of the things he was claiming Kenya had done. Now don’t get me wrong, I really don’t like Kenya at all. I think she’s a very mean, horrible person and a bully. However, if Phaedra knew she couldn’t move pass how she felt towards she should of said it how long ago. Also, it doesn’t seem like Apollo married her for all the right reasons and as much as you would like to convince yourself that he did, you’ll end up hurting yourself more. She needs to be true with herself and stop playing face with people she hasn’t forgiven at all.
I agree i actually dont like them both, Team Kandi. But even if Apollo lied, the flirting alone was too much. The lack of respect. I watched it recently.
We clearly didn’t watch the same show.
Kenya clearly threw that party out of love for cynthia and decided to throw Phaedra in seeing as she’s going through one.
Apollo admitted he was lying.
Kenya wasn’t a side chick or close to one.
This “side chick” accusation people keep throwing at Kenya makes me wonder how they operate in their real lives. Does every woman who looks at your man amorously become a side chick to you? Like please. Apollo admitted he lied on her and the worst thing that happened was text messages. You can argue about whether they should have been texting at all, but that’s not even in the same realm as “side chick.” Even Phaedra never accused Kenya of sleeping with her husband, so I don’t know why these people are.
THANK YOU…. LIKE I’M WOWED.
The thing I cant agree with is Apollo admitting to lying negates all that we saw coz it doesn’t. If you can, please watch. This is the one time i would say Phaedra really tried but Kenya just wouldn’t stop flirting
Imagine this. You are Phaedra and you hold resentment towards Kenya for the past. You’ve already forgiven her, but you can’t forget. So don’t fuck with her – at all. Be civil and let that be that. She engaged in a friendship with her this season that went beyond civilities and she didn’t have to. That is FAKE and some people, myself included, don’t respect fake. I would respect Phaedra if she forgave, even if she didn’t, but cut Kenya from her life. She didn’t do that and that’s what people are calling her out for.
To many people directing their anger towards the wrong people.
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Phaedra is so extra. “Mocking the sacrament of marriage…” Lmao!
Lol, Even though she’s very fake and extra, she’s also very intelligent! So that is no one takes her serious!
Phedra picking and choosing when she wants to be a woman of god and the local thot. Goodnight.
Ok. Its official. Matt throws the best shade of all. Lol. I’m so happy that he called Kenya’s desperate ass out😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yes crazy, ugly Matt let the shyt out on Mrs. Victim yassssss
she was silent too when he dropped that bomb. lol. She is sooo scared of Matt’s violent ass, but not scared of his daaaaack tho! Kenya just wants Matt for some young and strong pipe, and someone on her arm in situations where she feels she needs a man. She just wants a boy toy, but she got enough years on Matt to know how to manipulate his young (compared to her age) and strung self. She wants him when she wants him, and does not care about his feelings when she is done with him, and then plays the victim when he rightfully has his outbursts.
Why give Matt any attention.. all he says could be true, but his outbursts, irratic behavior gets lost….plus if he don’t care why make long emotional post about someone he doesn’t like or no longer wants to be with.
Yea and she is a MASTER at communication and emotional manipulation she didn’t expect Matt to say it
Lol she couldnt believe it
Not crazy, ugly Matt 😂😂
Agree with you 100%
So Kenya let me get this straight. You call everybody thots but you are the classy one phucking a dude in his truck that you are scared of “because he is crazy”? 🤔🤔🤔 umkay
She’s daring and adventurous….plus she has said multiple times that she knows Matt would never physically harm HER. She called her ex who is still in love with her round for a bootycall & wanted to do it in a thrilling/daring place. Now would I do this, no. But this does not make her a thot!
No it doesn’t make her a thot, I think the point is that she loves to call women a thot for example e shit she does on the down low.
Right! If she heard someone like Porsha did something like that she would be calling her classless and a ho.
I definitely understand those who feel that Phadra should have been upset with her husband because they made vows. Thats true shyt, but a bish aint gonna play me side ways and disrespect me flirting with my husband in my face! That bish Kenya dont get a pass. FOH! Both their asses woulda phucked around and been sipping soup through straws👊🏽😡
I get what Kenya was trying to do or say but tread lightly
Sharee let that go baby you really do seem hurt and he’s a NOTHING ass Nigga dead that whole situation and throw the whole fuck nigga away 💁🏽! That party was tacky and tasteless I ain’t mad at Phaedra at all! Cynthia throw Peter one more fuck before yall depart the islands I know that cootie 🐱 got cobwebs 😂😂😂! The ultimate read of he night “They want me to roast Peter but he already looks well done to me” -Sheree I laughed rewinded that shit and laughed again 😩💀💀
I always want to cry when someone else cries, Sheree makes me want to laugh..but I give her props for being a good example for some females out here..I was cracking up when she said Girl quit playin , after Porsha missed the penis lol !!!!
Im starting to like Kenya now. Her wit tickles me
I like Kandi but shes passive aggressive
Love Cynthias humor and honesty. When Peter said she don’t like the responsibility of being a wife it hit home for me. I hope they work out. Btw Peter is fine as hell. Rich chocolate mm
Phaedra confuses me and I don’t like it. She won’t break or bend. Her booty bounce and church clothes…I cant.
Something about Porsha seems extremely hurt and lost, shes loyal to no one and Im curious to know more of her story.
So Pheadra felt like that yet she invited Kenya to the Michigan trip .
And they spent the whole time together…. I
Exactly! Isn’t that a little scary? Seriously, she needs individual counseling.
Is that whack ass Johnny I see next episode….??? Didn’t Pheadra tell him she can’t help him?🤔🤔🙄🙄
how many episodes left? I wanna see Apollo’s fiancé 🌿👀🌿
Lmao right 👀👀👀
We deserve new drama.
When Kandi and Phaedra were close, Kandi would have never read a text that Phaedra sent after leaving the room or told about the finalized divorce. Phaedra lost a good friend when she turned on Kandi. She’s learning the hard way. It seems as if she’s dealing with serious insecurities.
Yeah, but she probably wouldn’t have done that if Pheadra had taken ownership of that lesbian accusation
Kandi was known to do the same Shit. Kandi was the one to go back and tell people about phaedra real due date. Kandi told kenya a few times what Apollo and phaedra said about her. Remember when porsha had that party for her man..duke,kandi was at the party talking about some gossip shit she heard about duke. She was known to have a gossip mouth.
Lmfao @ the producers. What was that moment at 1643??? They gave her three seconds of silence hahaha. She looked stupefied. 😂😂😂
This season has been soooo lit. I am living!
Sheree..I have a lot of empathy for her. She isn’t my favorite but I get her pain due to the her relationship with bob. Sheree is sensitive and emotional . That hard shell is use to cover up those wounds. She need to write ..or do some healing. Bob also has deep problems I think he gets off on seeing Sheree in pain because it gives him power. Also he don’t like the fact that Sheree remind him of how fuck up he really is. He need to be a man and accept that he was a fuck up person and still it because he don’t deal with the pass.
Phaedra is the biggest hypocrite on the show, for real, for real! Smh!
Yep. She always just contradicts herself she wants to portray this attorney southern belle, but refused to admit she was knocked up before getting married and rather been 11 months pregnant, and didn’t know the numbers, then she wears thongs and shredded up clothes on vacation, talks about sex and twerks everywhere and was dating other men before the ink dried on the divorce decree. She tries to put on this front, but to me it’s okay to be educated and ratchet, or clatchet, (classy ratchet) she just throws rocks an hides her hands in situations everytime.
Kenya is mean but she doesn’t hold things in her for long. Pheadra pray and pretende all the time but she is more evil than any of this woman
Kenya party…I really don’t believe she was being mean ..wit kenya u never know though. I get both sides. KEnya has a big issue with boundaries and understanding human emotions. Cynthia wasn’t comfortable with it either. Kenya don’t get it in away. Although Cynthia and phaedra are glad to move on and let go there is a feeling of death. Not feeling complete when ending a marriage. Look at how sheree is still hurt from her pass.
Phaedra should’ve been honest. This what really piss me off with phaedra. You are a grown ass women. It’s OK to keep quiet at times and have self control but don’t fucking pretend to be OK when things are bothering you. Phaedra act like she isn’t justified to have a human emotions. So I see why Kenya was piss. Kenya need to understand just because they apologize and agreed to let things go that do not mean the pass is erase..problems don’t end there. You have to work up to that relationship again. So yes that can bring up old feelings. What I hate about Kenya is that she will apologize but if the situation come back up then she will make excuses again..she act like a child at times… That don’t get how certain adult behaviors work.
I glad porsha read phaedra text out loud. Porsha is feeling this one sided behavior from phaedra. Although phaedra don’t really speak up for herself so I think she wil not be aggressive enough to verbalize anything ,I still think phaedra is one sided as fuck.
Lastly kandi said porsha admit to lying..girl bye. I realize kandi do this shit in her head where she make all these judgments. She will say this and that is true to satisfy her own ego. She has to feel like she is right. She does this with her mom too.
Let me put it out..I like Kenya. She does crazy shit at times to me me cringe but I like her. Now with that being said…I honestly do not think her throwing the party was in any ill-intent. It to me was supposed to be a new start on their(Cyn/Pheadra) life. I’ve been through a divorce it’s a hurtful emotional state…but I wish I had friends to at least help me even for a second forget the misery I was going through. Fakedra needs to be mad at Apollo lying, stealing old folk money having jail bird felon ass. Cause that’s who she married. Apoll for 2yrs lied on Kenya making it seem like they had a fling when in fact it never was. That should tell you the kind of person he is. I’m so glad for the flashbacks cause these hoes be lying. Fakedra should have told Kenya look we can move forward but we can’t be friends. She dun prayed with the lady,invited her on trips ask to help with fundraisers, and now all of a sudden you mad?! Told ya Pheadra was phony and a liar…southern bell my ass.
I agree I don’t think she had ill intent but that doesn’t mean She was wrong to be offended, even Cynthia didn’t want the party. Just because you didn’t mean it doesn’t mean people cant be hurt. She just didn’t think it all the way through because it absolutely cannot be denied that she was inappropriate with Apollo and continued to flirt and touch and have one on one convos with him after his wife had asked her not to, more then once. That isn’t cool and she’s never really apologised for it, so throwing a divorce party was in poor taste. She didn’t mean it but still, it was
Actually Kenya has apologise to Pheadra even to Porsha for the fight that they both had.. Was the party a little too soon, possibly…not everyone moves on from a relationship /marriage as quickly,but as I do recall the only reason why Kenya continued to talk to Apollo even after Pherda said not to wasn’t to flirt or be vindictive..but to get Apollo to admit he lied about them having a fling and hooking up in LA and to clear her name. Kenya even tried to have a sit down with Pheadra but she was to busy calling her Whore Moore then to check her husband. Even Peter agreed that everyone owed her an apology because for 2yrs Apollo lying ass had them believing Kenya was trying to smash.
LOL! the thing is everyone knows Phaedra has or pretends to have moved on. Especially after Kandi confirmed that indeed there was a Mr Chocolate. So i can see how Kenya didn’t think that deeply before throwing it
I think people’s dislike of certain women clouds their judgment. Me, for example, I never liked Phaedra and never will. She’s not a good person in my eyes. However, I agreed with her regarding celebrating the dissolution of marriage as being tacky, for example. I think society as a whole has denigrated the institution of marriage and breaking up a family shouldn’t be celebrated, even though I think Kenya’s intentions were good. So I agree with her on that regardless of my dislike for her.
Even though Kenya really did nothing wrong here, her detractors will find a way to stretch the truth to make her look like the bad guy. That’s all it is. Women are very irrational that way LOL
I do agree with everything you said. Even it being tacky. But to each his own. and if porsha threw that party, she would never have called it tacky. I mean Phaedra was already dating before the divorce came close to final. contradictory.
I’m sooo disappointed in women blaming Kenya as opposed to Apollo. It’s appalling
I totally agree! Phaedra isn’t slick at all. She didn’t want Kenya and Apollo to meet on camera because she knew knuckle brain Apollo would have confirmed he was lying sooner rather than later. Phaedra wanted to stretch the “Kenya whore moore” pity party story line as far as she could. I don’t care what anyone says. She knew Apollo lied and she went right along with the lie because she and Kenya fell out over and stupid workout DVD.
And how did Cynthia handle it? Did she call Kenya names or explain her stance?
She flirted with and touched Apollo after Phaedra told her not to? What kind of revisionist history is that?
Kenya wasn’t wrong this time. Maybe a divorce party wasn’t the best idea but Phaedra was being hella extra for no good reason.
Sheree please let go of Big Titty Bob. He is extremely immature and is never going to fully register the hurt he caused.
Is it just me, or is Porsha’s Todd a complete cornball. Something about him is weird. And what man with two kids leaves a job as a lobbyist to follow around airhead ass Porsha?
If Trump can be POTUS and the folk he picked for cabinet positions can serve those roles, I can’t be surprised a lobbyist thought it smart to drop that act altogether and follow behind a girl with a savings account and a high booty. She def puts the airhead in the ass.
Kenya shouldn’t have thrown that party, at least not for Phaedra, just Cynthia. And Phaedra needs to keep it 100 with her feelings for Kenya. You can’t be having restoration services, praying, saying your over the bull and moving forward with someone, and then carrying OOLLLD feelings.
As much as people bash Cynthia and say she’s boring… which to a minor note I agree… she does a decent job keeping collected under mad pressure. She sposed to be the weakest link but she’s the only real survivor of Porsha’s wrath, which she literally got a kick out of. That says something about the gumption in her.
And who wouldn’t look a bit “boring” next to a Kandi, Porsha, Sheree, Kenya… Marlo? Nene?? Of which had an energy so strong the woman felt the need to contract a chunk of her soul on paper to her coochie points account or sumthin?…. and by no means is that an endorsement pro or no for any in particular… just an acknowledgement of big personalities and egos… battling xena warrior spirits and ish.
But anyway, Cyn dropped some real, transparent womanhood on tv. You can call her dumb, ditzy, dull, whatever, but she seems to be one of the most pretty and polished we have to offer, bright and gifted. It’s why she looks young for her age.
In order for her to really make sense to the show, you have to believe it’s okay for a black woman to not be loud and vicious, or putting on some faux independent woman/bad bitch act like her peers, but using her head and her heart to lead her, being true to her own rules, even if it means opportunists arrive to take advantage of her… you have to know it’s okay for someone to say fv.k that to being trapped with a man who says he wants her but somehow doesn’t SEE her.
Phaedra, she’s a fave, but damn. Sis. Just… ridiculous. And hell yea it was obsessive and awkward asf for Kenya to throw a divorce party (SERIOUSLY? YOU DEADASS WAFTING YO PUSS WIT DAT WOMAN HUSBAND… THEN YOU THROW A SURPRISE DIVORCE PARTY????), but her reaction to everything is still leaning trump levels of extra. most of them need to calm tfd. but then there wouldn’t be anything to watch I guess.
I don’t blame Phaedra for feeling the way she felt, nor do I blame Kenya for throwing the party, however, I am side eyeing the fluck out of Porsha, for reading that damn text! Why? now she’s a Messy Freak Hoe
phaedra told her to
Yeah I’m pretty sure Phaedra wanted her to read it to them too because when porsha went back to tell Phaedra what happened when she read the text she was shaking her head up and down glad. My problem with Phaedra in this situation is she should have told Kenya directly instead of letting the middle woman do it. The way she was feeling wasn’t wrong, but how she handled it was.
Phaedra , Phaedra…. Spiritual revival in one hand and stripper who sucks his own peen in the other.
So Porsha slept with Apollo before he went to jail?
Love the henna Sheree has on her hands. Laughed at Cynthia’s attempt at a roast. I listened to Sheree’s book. It was so much ghetto and ratchett actions taking place, I couldn’t get through it. I was so surprised since Sheree is so well put together and opposite of what she wrote.
This episode was sooo good loved seeing the different sides of everybody
It’s official, Fakedra is the fakest person in the entire universe. Are you talking about Sacrament of marriage now? I thought you were the one that was brining everyone together? I phucking can’t 👎🏼👊🏾
Sacrament of marriage whilst she had Mr. Chocolate on speed dial #2.
Right…just like Kandi blew up her dam spot…like Pherda couldn’t wait for Apollo to go to jail and she WAS already talking to someone before he went into prison. So for a bish to really care so much about her marriage dealing with Kenya..she sure was ready to bust it wide for Mr
Chocolate.TBH Pheadra was never into Apollo like that anyways…Pheadra can miss me with this sacrament of marriage bullshit. She knows dam well Kenya isn’t the reason for the failure of a marriage.
Phaedra wanted camera time and a story she knew if she acted like friends with Kenya that would be a story… she was dead wrong Kenya had good intentions and truly like her , but oh well swans shouldn’t be friends with ducks
Kenya always finds reasons as to why someone lashes out at her and she is never the reason. Maybe just mayyyybbbeee Sheree went off on her because she doesn’t like her. (Kanye shrug)
I 💀💀💀💀@ the handcuffs on the banner tho 😭
Porshia: So you gon’ hit it tonight?
Peter: Not if you don’t get there first.
I friken lost it LMAO 😂💀
Sheree is such a natural beauty.
Pheadra is one of the worst people so fake and so mean spirited. And it really irks me that she has the cheek to bring God into things talking about Restoration yet shes the meanest of them all. Can’t deal with her fakeness *rolls eyes*
Phaedra so phony. Every trip you got yo’ a$$ out then you the first one to say you’re a southern bell and you always talking about somebody booty being big. Kandi is the only one I could see someone really trying to be with forever everybody else either shady or just to argumentative for no reason.
That walk Phaedra did to open the door for her bobbled head friend,Looks like she has pine leaf up her azz.Them loose girls walk like that.
Phaedra.. really? Apollo said he lied.. you played tennis with her.. now boom this happens? She wans to downplay her new friendship because of Porsha! But Kenya gets way too excited about friendships, that’s the one thing I don’t like about her.. she shouldn’t have thrown that party.. It should have just been a get together for all the ladies.. Cynthia has not been the best friend that you wanted, she’s even denied it.. Phaedra and you were already shaky.. BUT i think that if Porsha threw the party, Phakedra would’ve been right there kissing dicks too.. smh
Kenya don’t have real friends on the show lol! they need to get her off!
If you didn’t watch the season when Kenya and Apollo were flirting or are prone to memory loss, you shouldn’t comment on how Phaedra should feel. They BOTH disrespectful to her, hence the end of a marriage and friendship. Let’s use Common Sense and stop casting stones. Phaedra did not blame her for their divorce but said that their flirtatious actions were a major reason out of many reasons for their divorce, which is true. I don’t even think Porsha was supposed to read that message aloud, DoDo Bird!
Yall stop being nasty and judgy. Some of yall are just as hateful, fake, and judgemental as the names you call Phaedra. Being a christian doesn’t stop you from being human.
Porscha is doing the most having these lapses in discretion with other people’s business, namely Phaedra. That is the weirdest relationship ever.
Phaedra ain’t 💩
Lol. Apollo was no longer interested in Phaedra’s ass and she knew that so she’s using Kenya as bait. As soon as he got caught Phaedra wasn’t there for him even though her ass knew exactly what he was doing she wanted. A damn divorce I don’t know why she playing like she didn’t. She never forgave Kenya for texting her ole crooked criminal ex husband. I can’t stand when Phaedra acts as if everything is good when it’s not.
Pheadra obviously is unable to completely forgive Kenya about her flirting with Apollo but she should’ve kept her distance with Kenya if she still felt away about what she did, instead of applogizing and claiming to move forward while pretending to get along with her. I genuinely believe Kenya actually wanted a friendship with Pheadra and Pheadra didn’t want one with her.
Phaedra was just keeping her enemies close.
Pheadra should’ve spoke up about her disappointment and upset with Kenya throwing a divorce party instead of lying that she was sick, she should learn how to be more truthful so there isn’t any miscommunication on her part.
I don’t know 🤷🏽♀️ how Phaedra can call anyone stank with that walk she has ….ain’t nothing cute about it
You can not compare Cynthia’s divorce to Phaedra’s AT ALL!!!! Phaedra has kids and one day log it is quite possible that they will log on to mrworldpremiere and see her celebrating the divorce! It’s not a good look.
Why do people assume that if you’re single you’re bitter or miserable….and even if she does aspire to be married does that mean she’s miserable while being single ?!? I will never understand that. A lot of women want to be married but it doesn’t mean they are miserable…I hate that stereotype
Phaedra is fake af! You have been building a friendship with Kenya and now you want to call her a trifling bitch. Girrrrrl. You don’t know whether you are coming or going 🙄.
Anyone know the name of the song playing right before the divorce party starting at the 25:43 mark? I Shazamed it and it didn’t recognize the song.
Phaedra is a trifling piece of shit for too many reasons. Kenya and her fell out over money. Apollo DID say Kenya never text him and it was all a lie. So why is she still holding on to that shit?
She looked super petty during that conversation with Kenya. that’s how you know a woman who doesn’t like peace. How do you hold a restoration service and then do that? Phaedra reminds me of a lot of Nigerian pastors. Using religion where it suits her. She’s going to hell man. She’s actually an ugly person inside and out. Her divorce isn’t fresh, she doesn’t feel bad either.
Even if she was truly offended by Kenya’s action, why not explain it to Kenya like Cynthia did (the Christian way) and let it go, considering Kenya has never been married and doesn’t know what it feels like.
Phaedra is a bitter person. It’s disgusting to watch
TWICE her and Sheree tried to make Kenya look bad but it didn’t stick.
The only time i had a problem with Kenya was when she was provoking Porsha. Other than that, this woman has done no wrong. She’s a free spirit literally. Phaedra probably can’t take her being happy all the time.
Y’all keep bringing up these messages like that was the only situation. Kenya openly flirted with Apollo on national television before we even got to text messages. Yes, Apollo flirted back and he is to blame as well seeing as though he is the one in the marriage and not Kenya. However, her behavior was unacceptable. She had no respect for their union from the jump AND she initiated the flirting between them two. This is a marriage it aint no high school puppy love ish. Phaedra was not blaming Kenya for her divorce, but simply saying I don’t want the chick who I had issues with due to my husband/marriage hosting a divorce party and celebrating a divorce. Yea she forgave her and moved on, but it opened back up the wound. WHICH IS NORMAL. Now whether you chose to bottle it up and be mad because you “already forgave a person” thats on you. But humans are not robots your feelings toward a situation doesn’t just turn off as soon as you say I forgive you idc what y’all talking about in the comments.
Kenya wasn’t doing it out of spite, but it was just a bit tasteless given their history. I mean I personally wouldn’t have thrown her a divorce party if I was Kenya. I wouldn’t even really want to touch on that if Phaedra aint bring it up to me. I don’t think anyone is to blame or scrutinize in this situation. I see where both of them are coming from.
Kenya is stupid and has no brains. She should damm well know that she was constantly in the mix of Phaedra and Apollo issues, and I dont care if the fixed it or not anyone one would be reminded of what happened unless you are stupid which Phaedra aint. Kenya is the kind of hoe that would sleep with your man, apologise and expect you be bestie and pretend it never happened,, but will be the one to chop of a bitch neck for looking at her man!
So I have a question:
Y’all would throw a divorce party for a friend? Who you aren’t close with! Who didn’t give you any indication that they wanted a party?
If I’m not celebratory why are you?
In real life, I know two different individuals who have had divorce parties…they threw the parties themselves..
I don’t like any of these women so my opinion is never biased when watching this shit. Wrong is wrong. Tacky is tacky.
What if, just what if, she was throwing it for Cynthia (as they are obviously close friends) and decided why not throw Phaedra in (seeing as they are going through the same thing and her and kenya have been getting along pretty fine as well)..
Not everything in life is black and white.
Ya’ll need to stop being soo negative and trying to paint Kenya in a negative light all the time. It get’s tiring. This was done out of love. was she wrong (Maybe in Phaedra’s eyes).
what would it have taken out of Phaedra to explain (like an adult) that it was tacky, to someone who has never been married before?
I can give you that BUT, she still doesn’t have any business throwing it for Cynthia. Let Cynthia do that. In the days prior, weren’t the joking and talking about how peter and Cynthia were looking all close again? My thing is, it’s not your situation. People heal differently. As a friend of Cynthia’s she shouldn’t have done that to her either. What IF Cynthia was considering giving Peter another chance?
Did Cynthia complain? yes. did she get over it. YES.
You’ve moved from the party being tacky all together.. to the person who is throwing the party…. Straws girlll… strawsssss… You’re grabbing
Oh so this about Defending Kenya? Well I’m not here for that. What she did was wrong in my opinion. I’m not a fan girl of any of these women. They are all wrong in what they do…sooooo, for me this is basically about the divorce party being tacky. I don’t care if Jesus himself through it, I’m not defending it just because I like the person who threw it.
Nope! not defending her.
Because you find it wrong doesn’t mean the next person would.
Friends throw it for friends all the time….
Everyone will be fine.
I’m over it
Kenya is beautiful BUT STUPID AF!
I like Phaedra, but she was wrong. Kenya didn’t have any ill intentions with the divorce party and they squashed it, so that text shouldn’t have even been composed.
So ultimately shadera was still carrying feelings and just faking her friendship with Kenya?? Why tho, for a storyline or ratings? Honestly I can’t stand Phaedra she’s too wicked and evil. We all saw apollo admit it was lies, yet she STILL brings it up!
She DOES blame Kenya for the marriage breaking up clearly.
ok…But who throws someone a surprise divorce party? where they do that at?
Kenya evidently lol
Frick and frack need to change their name to Thot and Bop
Which one of the girls would you find the most attractive if you were a straight man?
Me too my Mali sis…
Cynthia would be the 2nd choice for most men. But Porsha is the 1st choice. The rest of the girls would fall in 3rd place..
Im a married straight woman but I would phuck the shyt out of Porsha’s lying ass! I am a squirter and I think she may be too😭😂😂😭
You husband is a lucky man..
Cuz us guys like a squirter..
I know its been a minute since I commented but I decided to come out of retirement to say this…Phaedra stays turning enemies in to friends…first Nene, then porsha now Kandi…I don’t think people give her enough credit.
And right back into enemies again…
lol! I spoke too soon..
So much going on this episode…. Porsha and Todd are made for each other. Both of them are as thick as two short planks. But…. When he laughed at Todd and Kandi I cried 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
thats whyi wasn’t buying kenya n phaedra friendship.
Phaedra is back paddling now…she was acting as if Kenya was her close girl, doing girl trips and meeting up for lunches, but now she wants to switch up?. I don’t think Kenya was trying to be shady by throwing the divorce party, since it was for her AND Cynthia. You’d think Phaedra had moved on since she does’nt go to see Apollo anymore and he’s engaged to someone else.. I’m honestly confused..
porsha got me ctfu talkin bout yu left me in the room kissing dicks on the wall 😩😭😂 yoooooo shit hilarious
Kenya is a ho and she was flirting with Apollo in Phaedra face and a lesser woman woulda beat her ass
I dont think Phaedra ment for the group to know what she texted porsha but porsha spilt the beans again I think it was one of those possed messages you send your FRIEND venting if anybody knows phe she would’ve never spoken that way if she thought everyone would have heard her I think that was kind of lame of porsha and that’s why she got tf outta the when Kenya showed up
I think some people on here lack perspective.
Let’s use Kandi and Todd as an example. Todd is clearly physically attracted to Porsha. They were all friends. Now if Todd and Porsha openly flirted with one another and it was inappropriate to the point that everyone cringed watching then they have taken it too far. Moving on from that now, if Todd and Porsha are texting one another and Kandi asked Porsha to stop texting het husband. Don’t you think it would be disrespectful for Porsha to continue to text Todd?
Would they be saying Kandi jealous and threatened by Porsha because she is so beautiful?
Fast forward. Now you’ve both decided to move on and try to repair the friendship. Shoukd Porsha be the one to throw Kandi a divorce party?
I think if people didn’t love Kenya so much and dislike Phaedra they could see just how wrong Kenya was and just how Phaedra could be offended by the divorce party scenario.
I’m sure she didn’t mean to cause offence by the party, but she did. Cynthia was upset to the point of wanting to cry but she put on a brave face for it. It wasn’t appropriate. If Cynthia was Kandi, Shere of any other cast member she would of expressed her feelings differently too. She’s Cynthia. Cynthia is obliging.
EXcuse my language but… bish u are soooo on point👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We all watched Phaedra and Kandi apologise and move on a couple years back.
Yet still this season she has decided to air out all of Phaedras business. Business that isn’t personal to her and Phaedra.
Kenya fans are here for that. That’s fine. Yaaas Kandi tell it!
But Phaedra is fake for bringing up something that happened two years ago. Something that actually involved her and the other party.
I think Pheadra have every right to feel the way she did,Kenya is fake and she doing that to laugh at the because she never had a housband,I won’t like that kind of party eighter,
Why is Phaedra still on the show if she can’t stand being around these women? If she has a lot of jobs as she claims, she surely wouldn’t have to entertain anybody on there for that paycheck.
Maybe I’m the only crazy one. Pheadra may be a lot of things, but how is she wrong for feeling the way she feels? Yes she have forgiven Kendra but like She said she hasn’t forgot. And maybe just maybe Kenya throwing this divorce party dug up old feelings. The fact that Kenya flirted heavily with Apollo even after she was asked to stop, means she should have been the last person to throw the party. Yes Cynthia stayed even tho she wasn’t happy, but let’s not forget she’s wishy washy. Also Pheadra hasn’t kids with the man for Christ sake. It’s a lot of shyt attached to her relationship. Idk maybe it should just me.
i don’t like Kenya,m I think she’s mean, picks on people, jealous and just nasty….. so I dont care who does what to her, as far as I am concerned, whatever bad things they say to her, she deserves them…
they shouldnt have shown that roast…. *rolls eyes* driest roast ever!
Kenya is TACKY. My best friend wouldn’t even through me a “divorce party”. Even if the marriage was horrible, something you vowed forever to is ending. That doesnt call for a party….
The dark skin jokes were tasteless.
Why are Kandi and so many of the other women acting like they didn’t hear that Bob abused Sheree?? They are damn near rooting for them to get back together.
?? Porsha never said she lied, Kandi. Even though it was shitty I don’t know how you got that out of the convo but you’re spinning a narrative a bit like when you said Porsha mentioned Shamea in the drug rumor and I didn’t hear that. Why are you still filming with her since that allegation? You don’t need Bravo coin.
Hell, we all know Bravo told Kenya to throw that party and Phadera to show up upset so they can have something to fight about. The trend is too tired at this point to be real: every season these girls make up to break up.
In an alternate universe where this isn’t a script:
Because Kenya and Phadera are in different head spaces about the past, they’re clashing on this subject. Phadera should’ve brought her feelings to the source, but no doubt Kenya and her would still have this argument because Kenya would still be offended. I didn’t feel much sympathy for Phadera when Porsha read Phadera’s text out loud because Phadera has left Porsha for dead for what…four episodes??
Women need to stop allowing for a man to cross boundaries with him. Be a grown up and state to him from jump hey that is not appropriate behavior to say to me not only because you are married but because your wife specifically is uncomfortable with this behavior. Let it be known the boundaries rather than giggling and smiling because a man will continue to try so long as you let him.
Apollo was to blame but I get tired of the flirtatious by nature women seeming confused why women have a problem with their behavior towards their men. Like don’t change yourself, be as flirtatious and friendly as you want but do not do that with my man. IF you continue then you disregarded my wishes and have now disrespected me.
Phaedra clearly should also be able to vocalize the issue that she has with Kenya in regards to her throwing the party. She is in the wrong for storming off like a child but the fact Kenya can’t open her eyes to see why it was distasteful is a problem. Kenya ass always gotta be the victim and doesn’t see how her actions cause a reaction. SMH
Let me get this straight: Y’all would move forward & accept the apology from a woman who disrespected your marriage by chasing ur ex-hubby? Y’all wouldn’t harbor any ill feelings b/c the apology magically erased the bad behavior? Wow.
So y’all cool w/the hoe who was trying to sleep w/ur ex-hubby throwing u a divorce party? Let me know. I wanna know how y’all think.
This episode reminded me why I dislike Kandi, Cynthia & Kenya. Everyone knows Kenya played a role in Page’s marriage falling apart. Kandi of all ppl *knows* the extents Kenya went to sleep w/Apollo yet she has the audacity to play dumb when Phaedra sent Porsha that text about the divorce party. Like wtf? These women really want us to forget that we watched Kenya chase a married man for 2 seasons. Like how?
Kenya that divorce party was in poor taste & tacky. FYI: The person who is getting divorce throws a divorce party–not the woman who tried her hardest to be the mistress of the divorcee’s ex-husband. Smh.
No, Phaedra did not owe Kenya an explanation for leaving. It’s not Phae’s job to initiate a friendship or cordial relationship w/Kenya. That’s Kenya’s responsibility due to her bad behavior 2 yrs ago that made viewers HATE HER W/A PASSION. Phae can bring up Kenya chasing Apollo bc its true & we all saw it on TV.
If Phae is a fake Christian what is Kenya? Bc Phae is a Christian she’s suppose to befriend her ex-hubby’s wannabe mistress? Where does the Bible say this? 😂
I hope y’all realize that when u see Phae engaging w/Kenya it’s not bc she wants to and the producers are forcing her too. If it’s the producers then it’s not Phae being fake. Its Phae doing her job as a cast member on a TV show. Y’all acting a bish is *really* going to befriend the hoe who tried to sleep w/her man. That makes no sense. That doesn’t happen IRL.
For everyone who cosign Kenya’s behavior in relation to Phae’s marriage I would like to know:
-r u of have u ever been married?
-would u let that slide in ur marriage?
Bc there is no way a married woman would NOT react like Phae…